When I walk, I must have a friend to talk to, or I shall not even
think. I am not of those who, like Stevenson, believe that walking
should be a kind of vegetative stupor, where the sun and air merely
fill one with a diffused sense of well-being and exclude definite
thought. The wind should rather blow through the dusty regions of the
mind, and the sun light up its dark corners, and thinking and talking
should be saner and higher and more joyful than within doors. But one
must have a friend along to open the windows. Neither can I sympathize
with those persons who carry on long chains of reasoning while they
are traveling or walking. When alone, my thinking is as desultory as
the scenery of the roadside, and when with a friend, it is apt to
be as full of romantic surprises as a walk through a woodland glen.
Good talk is like good scenery--continuous yet constantly varying,
and full of the charm of novelty and surprise. How unnatural it is
to think except when one is forced to do it, is discovered when one
attempts to analyze one’s thoughts when alone. He is a rare genius who
finds something beyond the mere visual images that float through his
mind,--either the reflection of what he is actually seeing, or the
pictorial representations of what he has been doing or what he wants
or intends to do in the near or far future. We should be shocked to
confess to ourselves how little control we have over our own minds; we
shall be lucky if we can believe that we guide them.
Thinking, then, was given us for use in emergencies, and no man can
be justly blamed if he reserves it for emergencies. He can be blamed,
however, if he does not expose himself to those crises which will call
it forth. Now a friend is such an emergency, perhaps the most exciting
stimulus to thinking that one can find, and if one wants to live beyond
the vegetative stupor, one must surround one’s self with friends. I
shall call my friends, then, all those influences which warm me and
start running again all my currents of thought and imagination. The
persons, causes, and books that unlock the prison of my intellectual
torpor, I can justly call my friends, for I find that I feel toward
them all the same eager joy and inexhaustible rush of welcome. Where
they differ it shall be in degree and not in kind. The speaker whom
I hear, the book that I read, the friend with whom I chat, the music
that I play, even the blank paper before me, which subtly stirs me
to cover it with sentences that unfold surprisingly and entice me to
follow until I seem hopelessly lost from the trail,--all these shall be
my friends as long as I find myself responding to them, and no longer.
They are all alike in being emergencies that call upon me for instant
and definite response.
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