Youthful folly detected: Written for the benefit of youth, particularly the female sexAnonymous
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Youthful folly detected: Written for the benefit of youth, particularly the female sex
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Young women -- Conduct of life -- Juvenile literature
And if you should ever happen to read the characters of any profligate
women (not to call them ladies) endeavour to make only this use of
their characters; that is, to shun their vices, avoid their pernicious
practices, and thereby escape the miseries that attend them.
5. Endeavour to treat all persons with civility. Pay a proper respect
to your superiors, complaisance to your equals and courteously treat
those whom you shall deem to be your inferiors.
Establish in your own mind a certain rule of decency and modesty, to
be attended to in all companies, and at all times, whether at home or
abroad.
In all companies, give each one an opportunity for their proper share
of conversation. Remember that a talkative, loquacious woman, a
young woman more especially, often exposes her weakness, and sickens
the ear with her babblings. “The torrent of her words overwhelmeth
conversation.” Therefore every species of rudeness ought to be
avoided as unbecoming your sex. Again, frequent and loud laughter doth
not become any person, especially a woman, and a young woman more
especially.―― Therefore it ought to be avoided on all occasions as not
belonging to the rules of decency, and as unbecoming the fair sex.
6. The strictest attention must be paid to the conversation which you
may occasionally have with the other sex. Be not forward in beginning a
conversation with them; but be always ready to return all compliments
that may be given to you with an easy address, and in a becoming
manner, without being daunted or even put to the blush.
In order to facilitate this business, endeavour to treasure up in your
memory, those addresses and compliments, that by constant observation,
you may hear drop from those whom you deem to be your superiors; and
endeavor to make them familiar to yourself, so that you may be able to
use them on any occasion, with propriety, & without the appearance of
affectation or dissimulation.
And as you would avoid a prudish disposition on the one hand, so you
must equally avoid a volatile, idle, and wanton disposition on the
other. To facilitate which, give yourself more to thinking and less to
talking, so that when you do speak, you may always speak with decency,
modesty, and propriety. Always mind to speak plain and distinctly,
and loud enough to be understood, with a modest smile on your face,
without a rude look in your countenance.
But let your speeches be short and comprehensive; and never try to
prolong a conversation, unless it be upon topics that are becoming your
sex. But if the conversation should be disagreeable and unbecoming,
endeavor to turn the attention to some other object, introduce some
other topic, or else find an occasion of absence.
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