قَالَ لِي أَبُو جَعْفَرٍ ( عليه السلام ) إِذَا تَزَوَّجَ أَحَدُكُمْ كَيْفَ يَصْنَعُ قُلْتُ لَا أَدْرِي قَالَ إِذَا هَمَّ بِذَلِكَ فَلْيُصَلِّ رَكْعَتَيْنِ وَ لْيَحْمَدِ اللَّهَ عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ ثُمَّ يَقُولُ اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ فَقَدِّرْ لِي مِنَ النِّسَاءِ أَعَفَّهُنَّ فَرْجاً وَ أَحْفَظَهُنَّ لِي فِي نَفْسِهَا وَ مَالِي وَ أَوْسَعَهُنَّ رِزْقاً وَ أَعْظَمَهُنَّ بَرَكَةً وَ قَدِّرْ لِي وَلَداً طَيِّباً تَجْعَلْهُ خَلَفاً صَالِحاً فِي حَيَاتِي وَ بَعْدَ مَوْتِي قَالَ فَإِذَا دَخَلَتْ إِلَيْهِ فَلْيَضَعْ يَدَهُ عَلَى نَاصِيَتِهَا وَ لْيَقُلِ اللَّهُمَّ عَلَى كِتَابِكَ تَزَوَّجْتُهَا وَ فِي أَمَانَتِكَ أَخَذْتُهَا وَ بِكَلِمَاتِكَ اسْتَحْلَلْتُ فَرْجَهَا فَإِنْ قَضَيْتَ لِي فِي رَحِمِهَا شَيْئاً فَاجْعَلْهُ مُسْلِماً سَوِيّاً وَ لَا تَجْعَلْهُ شِرْكَ شَيْطَانٍ قَالَ قُلْتُ وَ كَيْفَ يَكُونُ شِرْكَ شَيْطَانٍ قَالَ إِنْ ذَكَرَ اسْمَ اللَّهِ تَنَحَّى الشَّيْطَانُ وَ إِنْ فَعَلَ وَ لَمْ يُسَمِّ أَدْخَلَ ذَكَرَهُ وَ كَانَ الْعَمَلُ مِنْهُمَا جَمِيعاً وَ النُّطْفَةُ وَاحِدَةٌ .
Translation
Muhammad Bin Yahya, from Ahmad Bin Muhammad Bin Isa, and a number of our companions, from Ahmad Bin Abu Abdullah, from Al Qasim Bin Yahya, from his grandfather Al Hassan Bin Rashid, from Abu Baseer who said, ‘Abu Ja’far<sup>asws</sup> said to me: ‘Whenever one of you gets married, how does he deal with it?’ I said, ‘I do not know’. He<sup>asws</sup> said: ‘When he thinks of that (getting married), so let him Pray two Cycles, and let him Praise Allah<sup>azwj</sup> Mighty and Majestic, then he should be saying, ‘O Allah<sup>azwj</sup>! I intend to get married, therefore Ordain for me from the women who is the most virtuous of her private parts and the most preserving for me with regards to herself and my wealth, and the most affluent in sustenance and of greatest Blessings, and greatest of them in Blessings; and Ordain for me a good child, Making him to be a righteous successor during my lifetime and after my death’. He<sup>asws</sup> said: ‘So whenever she comes over to him, so let him place his hand upon her forehead, and let him say, ‘O Allah<sup>azwj</sup>! Upon Your<sup>azwj</sup> Book I have married her, and in Your<sup>azwj</sup> Security I take her, and with Your<sup>azwj</sup> Words I have permitted her private parts. So, if You<sup>azwj</sup> Judge for me something in her womeb, so Make it a complete Muslim, and do not Make Satan<sup>la</sup> to be a participant’. I said, ‘And how does the participation of Satan<sup>la</sup> take place?’ He<sup>asws</sup> said: ‘If he mentions the Name of Allah<sup>azwj</sup>, Satan<sup>la</sup> get embarrassed, and if he does it and does not say Bismillah, and enters his manhood, and the deed would be together from them both, and the seed would be one’.
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