Feminism in Greek Literature from Homer to Aristotle
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A mother who kills her child is to us a dreadful figure, and the death
penalty is invoked against the deserted girl-mother: no punishment is
inflicted upon the father, perhaps because no punishment can be adequate.
Greek law and custom went further and in a different direction. The
father was allowed to decide whether the child whom his wife had brought
forth should be reared. Child killing in this fashion, when done by the
father, was not a crime, and the exposure of children after birth was a
common, and by no means held to be a reprehensible act. Plato, indeed,
thinks it a fit subject for a jest in the Theætetus (p. 161). ‘Do you
think,’ says Socrates, ‘that it is right in all cases to rear your own
child? Will you be very angry if we take it—the argument—from you, as we
might take a baby from a young mother with her first child?’ ‘Oh, no,’
answers the other. ‘Theætetus will not mind: he is not at all hard to get
on with.’
The mother who did mind was regarded as a difficult person, but whether
she minded or not, decision lay with the father—as we see in Terence’s
play, The Self Tormentor. There the wife says to her husband, ‘You
remember, don’t you, when I was pregnant, you told me emphatically that
if the child should be a girl you would refuse to rear it.’ The child
proved to be a girl, and so without further question it was got rid of.
Male children were more valuable, and unless the circumstances of their
birth were exceptional, as in the case of Paris and Œdipus, they were not
often exposed.
There is this further point: what differentiates killing from murder is
the question of risk. You kill, you do not murder, when you risk your
own life. A soldier is not a murderer, and in sport a fox-hunter is a
man of different type from a pigeon shooter. Now the Athenian women were
not Amazons, but they fought a battle no less dangerous. ‘They say of
us,’ cries Medea, ‘that we live a life free from danger within doors,
while men are fighting like heroes with the spear. But men are fools.
Rather would I stand three times in the battle line of shields than bear
one child.’ A mother had already risked her life in bringing a child
to birth; is she not far more justified than the father in ending that
child’s life, if such be her will? Moreover, children are the pledges of
marriage, the securities given for a business arrangement. Is it right
that the party who wilfully breaks the compact should retain possession
of the securities?
Such I believe are some of the questions that Euripides meant to suggest.
It is no answer to them to say that it is an unnatural crime for a mother
to kill her children, for it is equally unnatural and criminal for a
father, and yet ancient fathers killed their children without compunction
and without blame.
The Medea then is realistic and little else: the Alcestis, the first
in time of Euripides’ plays, is a blend of style, and demands a fuller
treatment.