Feminism in Greek Literature from Homer to Aristotle
Aristotle · en
There are no villains in the Alcestis, and there are no heroes. There
is one heroic character, but her heroism is of so common a type that it
usually passes unnoticed. The three men, Admetus, Pheres and Heracles,
in varying degrees are animated by the strongest of all male motives,
self-preservation. Alcestis lacks their sound common-sense; she is guided
by passion, by the strongest of all female passions and that which comes
nearest to the divine, the maternal passion of self-sacrifice. She has
given life once, she is prepared to give it again.
It is commonly assumed—and even Verrall tacitly allows this to go
unchallenged—that Alcestis ‘is in love with’ Admetus, and Admetus ‘is in
love with’ Alcestis. The affection which, happily for us, may usually be
expected to exist between husband and wife, is taken for granted in the
very different conditions of Euripides’ time.
Now, as we have seen, this is a cardinal error. Mutual affection and
esteem did _not_ reign in an ordinary Athenian household. Husband and
wife were usually indifferent one to another, and even this indifference
was an improvement upon the Ionian relationship when husband and wife
were often natural enemies.
That a wife should give up her life out of love for her husband is a
state of things so agreeable to the natural man that it is, perhaps,
not surprising if the language of the play has never been too closely
examined.
_Alcestis’ motive is not love for her husband, but love for her
children._ Euripides, following Æschylus, knew that maternal love is a
far stronger force than conjugal affection, even when the latter exists.
The mother and the children—on them he spends all the resources of his
unrivalled pathos—the husband is a mark for his bitterest irony. It is
because Alcestis does not wish her children to be left _fatherless_ that
she consents to death.