A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer — John Locke — John Shaqi
A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer
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Mr. McIlvaine had an excellent cook. She made delicious rolls and
wonderful muffins and wafers, and as far as skill went our provisions
were turned into delicious food. There was quite a colony--seven
women besides ourselves--and we told Mr. McIlvaine that we could not
expect him to feed us all, that we were thankful enough for shelter
and to have our cooking done, and that we would all throw in and buy
provisions. So we made a common fund, and sent for such things as could
be had by Mr. McIlvaine whenever he went into town.
My husband came out to see me quite often during the weeks that
followed, and Colonel Taylor and many of our military friends
remembered us by dropping in to tea and spending an evening with us
when they could. There was a piano in the parlor, and our evenings
were often gay with singing, music, and dancing. There was but one
servant on the place as I remember--the cook I have spoken of, and whom
I remember vividly and affectionately for the good things to eat she
set before us. To cook for us, however, was about all she could do. We
had but few clothes with us, and when these got soiled there was no
washerwoman to be had, so when Sue Williams said she was going to wash
her clothes herself we all got up our washings, and went down into the
back yard with her. We found some tubs ands drew our water, and made
up some fire under a pot, as we had seen the negroes do. I can see Sue
now, drawing water and lifting buckets back and forth from the well.
We tied some clothes up in a sheet and put them into the pot to boil;
then we put some other clothes in a tub and began to wash; meanwhile
we had to keep up the fire under the pot. It was dinner hour by the
time we got thus far. The weather was very hot and we were dreadfully
tired, and we hadn’t got any clothes on the line yet. We stopped to
swallow our dinner, and went at it again. The sun was going down when
we had a pile of clothes washed, rinsed, and wrung, ready for the
line. We didn’t know what to do about it. There didn’t seem to be any
precedent that we had ever known for hanging clothes out at sundown.
On the other hand, if we didn’t spread them out they would mildew--we
had heard of such things. If they had to be spread out, certainly there
was no better place to spread them than on the line. So at sunset we
hung out our clothes to dry. There were handkerchiefs on the line and
a petticoat apiece. The rest of the clothes were in the pot and the
tub, and they are there now for aught I know to the contrary. I don’t
know what became of them, but I know we went into the house and went to
bed with the backache and every other sort of ache. I have never in all
my life worked so hard as I worked that day trying to wash my clothes
out; and the next day the clothes on the line looked yellow for all
the labor that was put upon them. I have never known why they looked
yellow--not for lack of work, for we had rubbed holes in some of them.