A Virginia Girl in the Civil War, 1861-1865: being a record of the actual experiences of the wife of a Confederate officer
John Locke · en
Though the last act of our heroic tragedy was already beginning I
was so far from suspecting it that I joined mother at the Arlington,
prepared to make a joke of hardships and wring every possible drop of
pleasure out of a winter in Richmond, varied, as I fondly imagined, by
frequent if brief visits from Dan.
The Arlington was kept on something like the European plan, not from
choice of landlady or guests but from grim necessity. Feeding a
houseful of people was too arduous and uncertain an undertaking in
those days for a woman to assume. Mrs. Fry, before our arrival in July,
had informed her boarders that they could continue to rent their rooms
from her, but that they must provide their own meals. We paid her $25
a month for our room--the price of a house in good times and in good
money. During my absence in Mansfield, Hicksford, and other places,
mother, to reduce expenses, had rented half of her room and bed to
Delia McArthur, of Petersburg. I now rented a little bed from Mrs. Fry
for myself, and set it up in the same room.
We had become so poor and had so little to cook that we did most of
our cooking ourselves over the grate, each woman often cooking her own
little rations. There was an old negress living in the back yard who
cooked for any or all of us when we had something that could not be
prepared by ourselves over the grate. Sometimes we got hold of a roast,
or we would buy two quarts of flour, a little dab of lard, and a few
pinches of salt and treat ourselves to a loaf of bread, which the old
negress cooked for us, charging ten dollars for the baking. But as a
rule the grate was all sufficient. We boiled rice or dried apples or
beans or peas in our stew-pan, and we had a frying-pan if there was
anything to fry.
Across the hall from us Miss Mary Pagett, of Petersburg, had a room to
herself. She worked in one of the departments, and in order that she
might have her meals in time she went into partnership with us. Every
morning she would put in with our rations whatever she happened to have
for that day, and mother would cook it and have it ready when she came.
Down-stairs under our room Mr. and Mrs. Sampson, their daughters Nan
and Beth, and their son Don, all of Petersburg and old neighbors and
friends of ours, lived, slept, cooked, and ate in two rooms, a big and
a little one. They lived as we did, cooking over their grates.
Sometimes we all put what we had together and ate in company. When any
of us secured at any time some eatable out of the common, if it was
enough to go around we invited the others into breakfast, dinner, or
tea, as the case might be. It must be understood that from the meal
called “tea,” the beverage from which the meal is named was nearly
always omitted. Our fare was never very sumptuous--often it was
painfully scanty. Sometimes we would all get so hungry that we would
put together all the money we could rake and scrape and buy a bit of
roast or something else substantial and have a feast.