Among the Kosekin the sick are objects of the highest regard. All
classes vie with one another in their attentions. The rich send their
luxuries; the paupers, however, not having anything to give, go
themselves and wait on them and nurse them. For this there is no help,
and the rich grumble, but can do nothing. The sick are thus sought out
incessantly, and most carefully tended. When they die there is great
rejoicing, since death is a blessing; but the nurses labor hard to
preserve them in life, so as to prolong the enjoyment of the high
privilege of nursing. Of all sick the incurable are most honored,
since they require nursing always. Children also are highly honored
and esteemed, and the aged too, since both classes require the care of
others and must be the recipients of favors which all are anxious to
bestow. Those who suffer from contagious diseases are more sought
after than any other class, for in waiting on these there is the
chance of gaining the blessing of death; indeed, in these cases much
trouble is usually experienced from the rush of those who insist on
offering their services.
For it must never be forgotten that the Kosekin love death as we love
life; and this accounts for all those ceremonies which to me were so
abhorrent, especially the scenes of the Mista Kosek. To them a dead
human body is no more than the dead body of a bird: there is no awe
felt, no sense of sanctity, of superstitious horror; and so I learned,
with a shudder, that the hate of life is a far worse thing than the
fear of death. This desire for death is, then, a master-passion, and
is the key to all their words and acts. They rejoice over the death of
friends, since those friends have gained the greatest of blessings;
they rejoice also at the birth of children, since those who are born
will one day gain the bliss of death.
For a couple to fall in love is the signal for mutual self-surrender.
Each insists on giving up the loved one; and the more passionate the
love is, the more eager is the desire to have the loved one married to
someone else. Lovers have died broken-hearted from being compelled to
marry one another. Poets here among the Kosekin celebrate unhappy love
which has met with this end. These poets also celebrate defeats
instead of victories, since it is considered glorious for one nation
to sacrifice itself to another; but to this there are important
limitations, as we shall see. Poets also celebrate street-sweepers,
scavengers, lamp-lighters, laborers, and above all, paupers, and pass
by as unworthy of notice the authors, Meleks, and Kohens of the land.