Are Parents People? — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Are Parents People?
John Stuart Mill · en
"He has no enthusiasm--no emotion. I can't understand him. At his age,
I venture to say, I would-- Well, I've come to you. You've had thirty
years' experience of boys."
"Yes," said Granby with his reserved, pedagogic manner. "I've been at
it thirty years." He stared at the floor and then, looking up, added:
"But I've only had four years of boys as they are now."
This was a new idea to Brougham.
"You mean boys are different?"
"Of course, they're different!" said Granby. "Even we are different,
and they-- Boys I was giving demerits to and scolding about Latin prose
last winter are fighting the war for us to-day. Roberts--I used to make
Roberts' life a burden to him about the dative of reference--he was
killed last month rescuing his machine gun; and here I am doing the
same safe task-- Well, I never felt like that about my work before.
Different? Of course they're different! They are not boys any more.
They are men; and we are old men."
There was, naturally enough, a pause, for this was by no means a
conception of life which Mr. Brougham could accept offhand; and in the
silence the door opened and David himself strode in--and stopped with
every appearance of disappointment on seeing his father.
"I beg your pardon," he said. "I'm afraid I'm interrupting you. I'll
come back."
"What did you want?" said Mr. Granby.
David paused, looking less like a man and more like a boy in his
indecision. Then his jaw set as he took his determination.
"I wanted you to tell my father something, but as long as he's here
I'd better tell him myself. I took the examinations last month for an
aviation camp, and I've just heard that I'm accepted."
Relief and horror struggling in Mr. Brougham like opposing waves
resulted in calm.
"But, my son," he said, "why have you concealed it? You did not think
I'd oppose you?"
David moved restlessly.
"Oh, no," he answered. "It wasn't that." He looked at Mr. Granby and
smiled. "Father's awfully tyrannical about this war," he said. "He
wants everyone to feel just as he does."
"But don't you feel as I do?" asked his father. "Why, you've just
proved that you do!"
"Not a bit!" said David, and he spoke with a force neither of the men
had ever heard from him before. "I don't feel a bit as you do, sir, and
what's more, I don't want to!" He stopped. "But we needn't go into
that," he added, and seemed about to leave the room.
Granby looked at Brougham. "It must be right here if we could get at
it," he said. "Tell us, David, what is it in your father's attitude
that you don't sympathize with?"
"And my mother's too."
"And mine?" asked Granby.
David hesitated an instant.
"You don't seem to care so much about having us all feel the way you do
if what we do is right. But my father and mother don't care what I do
unless I get excited about it."