Are Parents People? — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Are Parents People?
John Stuart Mill · en
The princess stared out of her window in silence, noting the
disappearance of the chocolate-colored houses, the beauty of the
shops--and yes, even of the shoppers. But her son was not gifted with
reticence. If his impressions had been disagreeable he might have been
silent, but as they were flattering he saw no reason for suppressing
them. He thought Fifth Avenue wonderful.
"And, my eye," he kept saying--an expression he had learned early in
life from an English groom--"what a lot of pretty girls, and what a lot
of cars! I did not know there were so many motor cars in the world."
Charlotte smiled as if she knew he meant to be kind, and suddenly
laying her hand on the princess' knee, she said, "Oh, I'm so afraid
you're going to hate it all, but you don't know what it means to me to
have you here."
The princess was touched.
Yet it must be owned that Lisa found the next few weeks
confusing--confusing, that is, if Charlotte were to be regarded as
the starved prisoner of an alien culture. They were agreeable weeks;
Raimundo was in the seventh heaven. He dined, danced, lunched, and
danced again. He went into the country and tobogganed, and learned to
walk on snowshoes. When asked how he was enjoying America he always
made the same answer: "I shall never go home. My eye! What girls!"
His mother enjoyed herself more mildly, and with certain reservations.
Erudite gentlemen were put next to her at dinner--a Frenchman who was
a specialist on Chinese porcelains; a painter of Spanish birth; and
several English novelists and poets who were either just beginning
or just completing successful lecture tours of the United States;
interesting men, in one way or another, yet--and yet--the princess
asked herself if she had crossed the wide Atlantic simply to see this
pale replica of a civilization she already knew.
And something else puzzled and distressed her. Her friend Charlotte
seemed to her the freest of created beings--freer than any woman the
princess had ever known, to make of her life anything she wanted to
make of it. But Charlotte's life seemed to lack purpose and dignity.
Charlotte liked to feel that learned men came to her house, but her
state of nerves did not always allow her to listen to what they said.
Serious books were on her table, and sometimes in her hands, and yet
her day lacked those long safe hours of leisure in which such books are
read.
There was no doubt that a realer, more vital Charlotte appeared buying
a new hat or playing a game of bridge or asking someone to dinner, than
the Charlotte who lamented the lost beauty of an old world. And yet she
wasn't just a fraud.