“I have nothing to say. It is not a thing that can be argued out. Those
women’s rights people are the worst of all. Because they think women
have been “subject” in the past. Women never have been subject. Never
can be. The proof of this is the way men have always been puzzled and
everlastingly trying fresh theories; founded _on_ the very small
experience of women any man is capable of having. Disabilities, imposed
by law, are a stupid insult to women, but have never touched them as
individuals. In the long run they injure only men. For they keep back
the civilisation of the outside world, which is the only thing men can
make. It is not everything. It is a sort of result, poor and shaky
because the real inside civilisation of women, the one thing that has
been in them from the first and is not in the natural man, not made by
“things,” is kept out of it. Women do not need civilisation. It is apt
to bore them. _But_ it can never rise above their level. They keep it
back. That does not matter, to themselves. But it matters to men. And if
they want their old civilisation to be anything but a dreary-weary
puzzle, they must leave off imagining themselves a race of gods fighting
against chaos, and thinking of women as part of the chaos they have to
civilise. There isn’t any “chaos.” Never has been. It’s the principal
masculine illusion. It is not a truth to say that women must be
civilised. Feminists are not only an insult to womanhood. They are a
libel on the universe.” In the awful presence she had spoken herself
out, found and recited her best most liberating words. The little unseen
room shone, its shining speaking up to her from small things immediately
under her eyes. Light, pouring from her speech, sent a radiance about
the thick black head and its monstrous bronze face. He might have his
thoughts, might even look them, from the utmost abyss of crude male
life, but he had helped her, and his blind unconscious outlines shared
the unknown glory. But she doubted if she would remember that thoughts
flowed more easily, with surprising ease, as if given, waiting, ready to
be scanned and stated, when one’s eyes ceased to look outwards. If she
could remember it, it might prove to be the solution of social life.
“These things are all matters of opinion. Whereas it is a matter of
indisputable _fact_ that in the past women have been subject.”
“If you believe that it is impossible for us to associate. Because we
are living in two utterly different worlds.”
“On the contrary. This difference is a most excellent basis for
association.”
“You think I can cheerfully regard myself as an emancipated slave, with
traditions of slavery for memory and the form of a slave as an
everlasting heritage?”
“Remember that heredity is cross-wise. You are probably more the
daughter of your father ...”
“_That_ won’t help you, thank you. If anything I am my mother’s son.”
“Ah--ah, what is this, you are a _son_. Do you see?”
“That’s a piece of English feudalism.”