“Any warning against sexual dangers,” says Dr. Acton, “would be very
incomplete if it did not extend to the excesses so often committed
by married persons in ignorance of their ill effects. Too frequent
emissions of the seminal fluid, and too frequent excitement of the
nervous system, are in themselves most destructive. The result is the
same within the marriage bond as without it. The married man and woman
who think that because they are married, they can commit no excesses,
however often the act of sexual congress is repeated, will suffer as
certainly and as seriously as the unmarried debauchee, who acts on
the same principle in his indulgences—perhaps more certainly, from
their very ignorance, and from their not taking those precautions
and following those rules which a career of vice is apt to teach the
sensualist. Many a man has, until his marriage, lived a most continent
life; so has his wife. As soon as they are wedded, intercourse is
indulged in night after night, neither party having an idea that these
repeated sexual acts are excesses which the system of neither can bear,
and which to the man, at least, is absolute ruin and to the woman a
source of disease. The practice is continued till health is impaired,
sometimes permanently, and when a patient is at last obliged to seek
medical advice, he is thunderstruck at learning that his sufferings
arise from excesses unwittingly committed. Married people appear to
think that connection may be repeated as regularly and almost as often
as their meals. Till they are told of their danger, the idea never
enters their heads that they are guilty of great and almost criminal
excess; nor is this to be wondered at, since the possibility of such a
cause of disease is seldom hinted at by the medical man they consult.
Some go so far as to believe that indulgence may increase these powers,
just as gymnastic exercises augment the force of the muscles. This
is a popular error, and requires correction. Such patients should be
told that the shock to the system, each time connection is indulged
in, is very powerful, and that the expenditure of seminal fluid must
be particularly injurious to organs previously debilitated. It is by
this and similar excesses that premature old age and complaints of the
generative organs are brought on.”