Femina, A Work for Every Woman — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Femina, A Work for Every Woman
John Stuart Mill · en
That husbands are often the instigators of this crime is a fact well
known to every physician of experience. I have known of a number of
cases where wives came to my office with a woeful tale of discontent
on the part of their husbands, who did not want an “_increase_.” Such
men are not worthy the name of father or husband. They should have been
emasculated before they ever approached the marriage altar, for they
are below the brute creation and have no claim on human affections.
The luxuries of life should not be considered as weighing against
the birth of children, nor the expense of maintaining a large family
considered as an excuse for feticide; expenses had better be reduced
and economized in other directions, so as to meet the little extra
increase, which the little stranger may cause. It is a fact, that among
thrifty people, large families are no barrier to material success, for
the blessedness of heaven rests upon them.
I invariably solicit an interview with the recalcitrant spouse, and
take the opportunity to tell him of the responsibilities which married
life imposes upon married couples; that the simple gratification of
the carnal senses is lust, which can and should be controlled by every
person, and more in particular by married men. Matrimonial relations
based only on libidinous pleasure are transient and evanescent;
incompatabilities arise, which cause conflict and dissension,
ultimating in estrangement and divorces, but when soul is wedded to
soul, then they are in harmony with the music of the spheres, and
children constitute the cement of an eternal wedlock which no man can
rend asunder.
Abrupt termination of pregnancy constitutes in itself a diseased
process in the tissues of the womb. We have already learned of the
gradual growth of the body of the womb to accommodate the growth of the
child; when abortion takes place there is a sudden check to this growth
in the tissues of the womb, and a low grade of inflammation invades
the entire structure. This inflammatory process fixes or hardens the
womb so that this acquired enlargement often becomes permanent. The
result is, that women can often trace the beginning of a long series
of complaints and a shattered constitution to a so-called miscarriage.
For this reason, the after-treatment of an abortion is of much greater
importance, than after a regular normal delivery.