Fetichism in West Africa : $b forty years' observation of native customs and superstitions
John Stuart Mill · en
Later the wife became a mother, and a son was born. Nkombe called this
first-born Ogula. Again, a daughter was born. Then the wife told her ngalo
to bring ships of wealth. The next day ships were seen coming. Nkombe went
on board and had a conversation with the captains. They stayed a few days,
and then sailed away, leaving Nkombe a cargo of wealth. Another time ships
came, and Nkombe went off on board as before; and these ships sailed away,
also leaving wealth. Other children were born to them. Children of a fairy
mother are called "aganlo"; they grow very fast, and are very wise.
Other ships came. One day one comes, and Nkombe, having gone on board,
has there a convivial time, stays all day, and returns nearly drunk. The
wife says to him, "Nkombe, often you come from ships looking in this way,
and I do not like it. I have spoken with you often, that if a food or a
drink is not good in its effects, it is better to leave it off. But you do
not care for my words." Nkombe, under the influence of liquor, was vexed
with her, rebuked her, and began to use hard words with orâwo (insult):
"You--you--this woman who--but I won't finish it." Soon, however, he took
up the quarrel again, saying, "A person can know from your manners that
you came out of--" The wife said, "When you are drunk, you say half
sentences; why hold back? Say what you want to say."
He shouted angrily, "Yes, if I want to say it, I will say it! It was my
own ntori that I killed. If I had not killed it, would you have come out
of it?" Then Ilâmbe said, "Please repeat that; I do not quite understand
you." He repeated it. She exclaimed, "Eh!" but said no more, and waited
until morning, when he would be sober.
So early in the morning she told him to get up, so that she could do her
housework. She did the morning's work, washing things neatly but rapidly.
Then she called her sons and daughters, and in their presence said to
their father, "You said so-and-so yesterday; now I am off and with my
children."
Nkombe knew he had said the forbidden words. He pleaded for mercy; but she
replied, "No, you broke your promise." The two elder children pleaded for
their father: "It was only once. Though a bad thing, it cannot break a
marriage. Forgive it." But the mother persisted, "No!" Then the two elder
ones said they would not leave their father.
So she said to him, "Now be thankful you have these two. If it was not for
them, I would put you back where you were just as I found you; but for the
sake of these two children, I leave some of my power with them." Then to
those two she said, "You will call on me for help when you have need, and
I will be near to help you."