Many persons go through life, struggling bravely with difficulty,
temptation, and hardship, carrying burdens too heavy for them, pouring
out their love in unselfish serving of others, and yet are scarcely
ever cheered by a word of approval or commendation, or by delicate
tenderness of friendship; then, when they lie silent in death, a whole
circle of admiring friends gathers to do them honor. Every one
remembers a personal kindness received, a favor shown, some help given,
and speaks of it in grateful words. Letters full of appreciation,
commendation, and gratitude are written to sorrowing friends. Flowers
are sent and piled about the coffin, enough to have strewn every hard
path of the long years of struggle. How surprised some good men and
women would be, after lives with scarcely a word of affection to cheer
their hearts, were they to awake suddenly in the midst of their
friends, a few hours after their death, and hear the testimonies that
are falling from every tongue, the appreciations, the grateful words of
love, the rememberings of kindness! They had never dreamed in life
that they had so many friends, that so many had thought well of them,
that they were helpful to so many.
After a long and worthy life, given up to lowly ministry, a good
clergyman was called home. Soon after his death, there was a meeting
of his friends, and many of them spoke of his beautiful life.
Incidents were given showing how his labors had been blessed. Out of
full hearts one after another gave grateful tribute of love. The
minister's widow was present; and when all the kindly words had been
spoken, she thanked the friends for what they had said. Then she
asked, amid her tears, "But why did you never tell him these things
while he was living?"
Yes, why not? He had wrought for forty years in a most unselfish way.
He had poured out his life without stint. He had carried his people in
his heart by day and by night, never sparing himself in any way when he
could be of use to one of God's children. His people were devoted to
him, loved him, and appreciated his labors. Yet rarely, all those
years, had any of them told him of the love that was in their hearts
for him, or of their gratitude for service given or good received. He
was conscious of the Master's approval, and this cheered him,--it was
the commendation he sought; but it would have comforted him many a
time, and made the burdens seem lighter and the toil easier and the joy
of serving deeper, if his people--those he loved and lived for, and
helped in so many ways--had sometimes told him how much he was to them.