Personal Friendships of Jesus — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Personal Friendships of Jesus
John Stuart Mill · en
Even at the best, human friendships only begin in this life; in heaven
they will reach their best and holiest possibilities. There are lives
which only touch each other in this world and then separate, going
their different ways--like ships that pass in the night. There will be
time enough in heaven for any such faintest beginnings of friendship to
be wrought out in beauty. Friendships with Jesus here touch but the
shore of an infinite ocean; in heaven, unhindered, in uninterrupted
fellowship, we shall be forever learning more of this love of Christ
which passeth knowledge.
CHAPTER XV.
JESUS AS A FRIEND.
"Long, long centuries
Agone, One walked the earth, his life
A seeming failure;
Dying, he gave the world a gift
That will outlast eternities."
The world has always paid high honor to friendship. Some of the finest
passages in all history are the stories of noble friendships,--stories
which are among the classics of literature. The qualities which belong
to an ideal friend have been treated by many writers through all the
centuries. But Jesus Christ brought into the world new standards for
everything in human life. He was the one complete Man,--God's ideal
for humanity. "Once in the world's history was born a Man. Once in
the roll of the ages, out of innumerable failures, from the stock of
human nature, one bud developed itself into a faultless flower. One
perfect specimen of humanity has God exhibited on earth." To Jesus,
therefore, we turn for the divine ideal of everything in human life.
What is friendship as interpreted by Jesus? What are the qualities of
a true friend as illustrated in the life of Jesus?
It is evident that he lifted the ideal of friendship to a height to
which it never before had been exalted. He made all things new. Duty
had a new meaning after Jesus taught and lived, and died and rose
again. He presented among men new conceptions of life, new standards
of character, new thoughts of what is worthy and beautiful. Not one of
his beatitudes had a place among the world's ideals of blessedness.
They all had an unworldly, a spiritual basis. The things he said that
men should live for were not the things which men had been living for
before he came. He showed new patterns for everything in life.
Jesus presented a conception for friendship which surpassed all the
classical models. In his farewell to his disciples he gave them what
he called a "new commandment." The commandment was that his friends
should love one another. Why was this called a new commandment? Was
there no commandment before Jesus came and gave it that good men should
love one another? Was this rule of love altogether new with him?