We are all what we make of ourselves, and can not accuse another of spoiling the work. STOP, LOOK, LISTEN! At every cross road in the country there is a warning signal: “Look out for the Locomotive.” At every railroad crossing in every large city, there are bells rung, whistles blown, and even guards let down when a locomotive passes. Policemen stand at corners to warn people to look out, etc. Why all these precautions? Simply to prevent people from endangering their lives. Yet, there are lives lost every day from failure to heed the warning signals, and many persons are maimed and crippled for life from the same cause. The impression seems to be that people do not know enough to take care of themselves, and that they are disposed to rush into danger heedlessly and imperil their lives. The impression is based upon truth. People do not know how to take care of themselves, and therefore the law exercises a sort of guardianship over them. It is all very nice to feel that there is somebody caring for us and shielding us from our own stupidity. That is what it is—stupidity. If men would only stop, look and listen, that is, keep their wits about them, there would be fewer accidents, fewer failures in business, and fewer failures to succeed at anything. It is not the foolish, the ignorant, and the small child who incur risks that are fatal, but grown men, men of intelligence and even wisdom and sagacity who venture too far and are caught up by hidden or exposed dangers, and lose their lives. It is almost suicide for any man to lose his life through his own carelessness and inattention to danger signals. These warnings exist everywhere in every department of business, and in every occupation. A suit for heavy damages is no consolation to the man who throws his life away through carelessness. BE EVERY MAN’S FRIEND Every man with a grain of common sense prefers a friend to an enemy. Not that a man need to have enemies, for if you make yourself a friend to every man, every man will be your friend and you will have no enemies. There is much comfort and peace of mind, besides greater opportunities for succeeding in any occupation, if you possess that charming trait known as “friendship.” Friendship is a valuable asset in character. There are always times during life when you need a friend, and you can always have one ready at hand if you are a friend to others. We all know that a friend in need is a friend indeed, but do not bank upon what you are to gain by being a friend and persuading others to be your friend. That is mercenary, and not provocative of good feeling or self-satisfaction. It is very proper to be friendly with every one from the standpoint of business, for then you gain friendship in a variety of pleasant ways.