Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
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I know a fine boy of twelve, the son of a store-keeper in a small
Georgia town, who is raising hens. He has forty flourishing Wyandottes,
a couple of dozen Leghorns and as many Buff Cochins. He has built a
substantial hen house, and fenced in a part of the yard. Friends and
relatives became interested in his enterprise and gave him suggestions,
the benefit of their experience, until now he is a thriving chicken
farmer. Last summer, he sold on an average of five dozen eggs a day. We
were among his customers, and we paid him thirty cents a dozen, his
regular price, which means that the twelve-year-old made $1.50 a day, or
$10.50 a week. Besides earning a little money he was having a lot of
fun.
He had enough on his mind to keep him out of trouble, and enough on his
hands to work off the physical force that otherwise might have gone to
waste, making him an undesirable citizen.
ENCOURAGEMENT FOR THE BOY
If your boy is mischievous, can you not make a merchant or a farmer or a
gardener out of him? It need not be his vocation. Let it be his
avocation, his hobby. Don’t shut him in, don’t keep him down; encourage
him to come out along life’s highway and show the world the sort of
stuff he’s made of.
A very noble-minded woman of my acquaintance is suffering from the
effects of having been constantly restrained when she was a child. She
is in consequence, diffident, lacking in self-confidence, liable to
become the victim of a strong-willed person’s whim. She says that, as a
girl, all her natural instincts were put to scorn. Full of abounding
life, she loved to leap down the stairs, throw herself into her mother’s
arms, shout with laughter, sing at the top of her voice as she went
about her tasks. This was looked upon with horror by her sedate and
cautious parent. “Don’t run down the stairs,” her mother would say.
“Don’t laugh so loud!” “Don’t shout like that!” Don’t, don’t, don’t,
until the poor girl did not really know what she might do with impunity.
She was constantly being humiliated before visitors, and the joy in life
that might have been cultivated and utilized, nay, even glorified, was
driven quite out of her soul. Yet her mother was an excellent woman, who
meant to do just the right thing by that little girl of hers. She had
her own idea of what a young girl should be. This gay, hilarious
creature was not just what the mother desired. She had hopes of bringing
up a dignified, gentle, lady-like, delicate, feminine daughter rather
than a hoyden. What might not that mother have done had she but
understood the glorious material God had lent her to work with a little
while!
If she had only realized that the quality she was stamping out was a
radiant, winged, rare, inspired and inspiring touch of nature springing
out of a fullness of life, a superabundance of health, she might have
made her child a queen among women, a leader, a creature admired and
adored.
THE SOUL NEEDS SPACE TO DEVELOP