Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
John Stuart Mill · en
Every child is born with a natural temperament or disposition, which is
the product of two elementary factors. (1) Inheritance—those qualities
which are transmitted by nature from one’s ancestors and (2) maternal
impression—the impression made upon the plastic brain of the foetus. The
first comes from generations of ancestry, whereas the last is entirely
dependent upon the mother; the influence of what she sees, what she
hears and what she thinks. These qualities combine for good or for bad,
to influence the life of the child.
Fortunate indeed is the child who is well born, but doubly fortunate is
he who may also be well trained.
IMPRESSIONS MADE BY THE EYE
The home is the true soil for the cultivation of virtue. Mere
cultivation of intellect has little influence upon character. Most of
the principles of character are implanted in the home and not in the
school. Children are more apt to learn through the eye than through the
ear. That which is seen makes a much deeper impression on the mind than
that which is read or heard, and that which they see they will
unconsciously imitate.
Notice the little mannerisms of your children. It may be a way of
walking, or a twist of the mouth or an accent. How easily you can detect
the origin! Therefore it behooves parents to place before their children
examples of character that as nearly as possible approach perfection.
Whatever benefit there is derived from the schools, the examples set in
the home are of far greater influence in forming the character of our
future men and women.
THE HOME THE SOCIAL CENTER
The home is the center of social and national character and from that
source issues the habits, principles and maxims that govern public as
well as private life. Examples of conduct even in apparently trivial
matters are of great importance, inasmuch as they are to become
interwoven with the lives of others and contribute to the formation of
the character for better or for worse.
We have first certain implanted principles of involuntary action. They
are the appetites which are tendencies toward things for bodily life and
continuance; the desires which are tendencies toward things necessary
for mental life and development, and the affections which are tendencies
toward social life and welfare.
The appetites are cravings produced by recurring wants and needs
necessary to the body and are seven in number: hunger, thirst, sex,
sleep, rest, exercise and air—all of which are necessary for our animal
existence. The appetites play a strong part even in our social and moral
life, and they may be lifted up to a higher plane of moral action or
they may be drawn down to a mere brute impulse. Every gift of the body
and soul can be moralized for good.
APPETITE AS A FACTOR IN CHARACTER