Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success — John Stuart Mill — John Shaqi
Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
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Bentham says that “a man becomes rich in his own stock of pleasures in
proportion to the amount he distributes to others. Kind words cost no
more than unkind words. Kind words produce kind actions, not only on the
part of him to whom they are addressed, but on the part of him by whom
they are employed; and this not incidentally only, but habitually, in
virtue of the principle of association. It may indeed happen that the
effort of beneficence may not benefit those for whom it was intended,
but when wisely directed it must benefit the person from whom it
emanates.”
A well-known author tells a story of a little girl, a great favorite
with every one who knew her. “Why does everybody love you so much?” She
answered, “I think it is because I love everybody so much.” This little
story is capable of a very wide application; for our happiness as human
beings, generally speaking, will be found to be very much in proportion
to the number of things we love, and the number of things that love us.
The greatest worldly success, however honestly achieved, will contribute
comparatively little to happiness unless it be accompanied by a lively
benevolence toward every human being.
RESENTMENT AGAINST INJUSTICE
Then we have with the kindly affections the defensive
affection—resentment, the spontaneous uprising of our natures against
harm and injury. It meets impending danger in an instant—not only
personal danger, but is present in our relations with others; as the
mother repels harm from her child. The resentment against wrong and
injustice should be taught as a righteous and noble attainment, but the
abuses are equally dangerous.
The mother will do well to explain to the child the different qualities
of this attainment. That quality which will protect him from wrong and
injury and which is excited by cruelty and injustice on the one side,
and on the other side the abuses which are passion and peevishness.
Teach him that the giving away to sudden fits of anger stamps him as
being ill-bred and peevishness is a sign of weak character; both of
which are diseases that if not cured will tend to destroy the moral
structure.
There is more virtue in one sunbeam than a whole hemisphere of clouds
and gloom. Therefore, look on the bright side of things. Cultivate what
is warm and genial—not the cold and repulsive, the dark and morose.
Don’t neglect your duty; live down prejudice.
THE JOYS OF CHEERFULNESS
Cheerfulness! How sweet in infancy, how lovely in youth, how saintly in
age! There are a few noble natures whose very presence carries sunshine
with them wherever they go; a sunshine which means pity for the poor,
sympathy for the suffering, help for the unfortunate, and benignity
toward all. How such a face enlivens every other face it meets, and
carries into every one vivacity, joy and gladness.