Progress and Achievements of the Colored People: Containing the Story of the Wonderful Advancement of the Colored Americans—the Most Marvelous in the History of Nations—Their Past Accomplishments, Together With Their Present-day Opportunities and a Glimpse Into the Future for Further Developments—the Dawn of a Triumphant Era. A Handbook for Self-improvement Which Leads to Greater Success
John Stuart Mill · en
Duty embraces our whole existence. It begins in the home where there is
duty which children owe to their parents on the one hand, and duty which
parents owe to their children on the other. There are in like manner,
the respective duties of husband and wife, of employer and employee;
while outside the home there are the duties which men and women owe to
each other as friends and neighbors.
May it be borne in mind that the first seven years of training, in a
child’s life, is of such importance as to leave its impress on the
character throughout all the coming years. Lyman Abbott says: “Training
is the production of habit. Actions oft repeated become a habit; habit
long continued becomes a second nature.”
If gentleness and kindliness born of love is given to the child, at the
same time forgetting not that kind firmness which guides the child’s
life aright; demanding and exacting an immediate and implicit obedience
to your instructions and directions, using whatever patience and
firmness may be necessary to compel such obedience—then has the parent,
and only then, accomplished that beginning and foundation of character
building which will send their children forth to bless the world, and
crown you with glory.
REVERENCE AND RESPECT
“Life is the wonder of wonders.” We can neither create it nor can we
comprehend its mystery. From the sun worshiper of the East to the red
man of the West, from the philosopher to the child there is in him that
natural inclination to bow with reverence to that all majestic, all
powerful source of this which we call life. “The greatest harm one may
do in life is to destroy it.”
The child has a natural tendency toward destruction, which we often see
illustrated in the youth whose chief pleasure is obtained by pulling up
the wild flowers and shrubs. He says, “they do not suffer.” Possibly
not, but they have been a means used to decorate and beautify the earth.
To destroy them for amusement is an insult to the great Creator, and is
also hardening his own heart. He will not long be satisfied to trample
upon the rose or crush the lily, but will want to torture living things
that will cry out with pain. When he has robbed the bird’s nest,
mutilated the toad and tied the tin can to the dog’s tail, he will then
turn to his fellowman to satiate his cultivated taste for cruelty. The
attack upon the flowers was only the preliminary act to destroy his
sympathy, love and pity. He has forgotten the law, “Thou shalt not
kill.”
EVIL EFFECTS OF BAD EXAMPLE, ETC.