The life of fine table-linen can be prolonged indefinitely by attention
to the first break in the hemstitching, the first wear of a thread in
the fabric, the first hole in lace. After the material once begins
to go, even long and careful mending will scarcely save it, but
watchfulness for the earliest symptoms of wear will postpone the evil
day.
IX
WHEN COMPANY COMES
Elaborate entertaining should not be undertaken by a young couple of
moderate means. Hospitality should be a matter of course, but never on
a scale that makes it a burden to carry out at the time or to pay for
afterward.
Perhaps the best and in many respects the most agreeable form of
hospitality is that which calls in the occasional guest to an informal
meal--a sort of improvised party. The husband asks a crony to dine on a
certain night, the wife invites a friend to meet him. Little change is
made in the family meal--perhaps a salad added as well as a sweet, or
more unusual items ordered, or a special dessert prepared, but nothing
which would bring the repast into the line of a dinner-party. There is
no state and ceremony and everything is pleasant and jolly. Such little
dinners are among the most charming forms of entertainment that can
be achieved by young people of moderate means. When it seems well to
widen the circle of invited guests, all to be done is to increase the
provision made without departing from the simplicity which is one of
the features of this kind of entertaining.
In the properly regulated home, where the observances of polite society
are followed as much when the family is alone as when there is company,
guests have no terrors. When the unexpected visitor arrives the table
is found spread for two in the same style that it would be for ten. The
napery is fresh and well laundered; the silver, glass, and china are
shining--clean and arranged in correct order--the knife at the right of
the plate with the soup or bouillon spoon, the fork at the left with
the napkin; the bread-and-butter plate, with its slice of bread or roll
and the butter-ball, near the fork, to correspond with the water-glass
on the other side.
In such a home the maid is taught to follow the orderly sequence of
courses, changing the plates and crumbing the table with as much pains
for one as for half a dozen. Little by little she becomes accustomed to
the routine, so that when a more formal entertainment is planned her
work seems to her merely an amplification of that to which she has
grown wonted.
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