Then came the golden age of the Troubadours, who did more than any
before to fix the tongue. In the twelfth century the little courts of
the Provençal nobles were renowned for gallantry. In fact, the knights
and barons and counts of the South plumed themselves on setting the
fashion to Christendom. In the South there was none of that rivalry
existing elsewhere between the knights in their castles and the
citizens in the towns. In every other part of Western Europe the line
of demarcation was sharp between the chivalry and the bourgeoisie.
Knighthood could only be conferred on one who was noble and who owned
land. It was otherwise in the South; the nobility and the commercial
class were on the best of terms, and one great factor in this fusion
was the Troubadour, who might spring from behind a counter as well as
from a knightly castle.
The chivalry of the South, and the Troubadour, evolved the strange
and, to our ideas, repulsive theory of love, which was, for a time,
universally accepted. What originated it was this:
In the south of France women could possess fiefs and all the authority
and power attaching to them. From this political capacity of women it
followed that marriages were contracted most ordinarily by nobles with
an eye to the increase of their domains. Ambition was the dominant
passion, and to that morality, sentiment, inclination, had to give
way and pass outside their matrimonial plans. Consequently, in the
feudal caste, marriages founded on such considerations were regarded as
commercial contracts only, and led to a most curious moral and social
phenomenon.
The idea was formed of love as a sentiment, from which every sensual
idea was excluded, in which, on the woman’s side, all was condescension
and compassion, on the man’s all submission and homage. Every lady
must have her devoted knight or minstrel—her lover, in fact, who
could not and must not be her husband; and every man who aspired to be
courteous must have his mistress.
“There are,” says a Troubadour, “four degrees in Love: the first is
hesitancy, the second is suppliancy, the third is acceptance, and the
fourth is friendship. He who would love a lady and goes to court her,
but does not venture on addressing her, is in the stage of Hesitancy.
But if the lady gives him any encouragement, and he ventures to tell
her of his pains, then he has advanced to the stage of Suppliant. And
if, after speaking to his lady and praying her, she retains him as
her knight, by the gift of ribbons, gloves, or girdle, then he enters
on the grade of Acceptance. And if, finally, it pleases the lady to
accord to her loyal accepted lover so much as a kiss, then she has
elevated him to Friendship.”
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