We probably form an erroneous idea as to the immorality of these
contracts, because we attach to the idea of love a conception foreign
to that accorded it by the chivalry of Provence in the twelfth century.
With them it was a mystic exaltation, an idealising of a lady into a
being of superior virtue, beauty, spirituality. And because it was
a purely ideal relation it could not subsist along with a material
relation such as marriage. It was because this connexion was ideal
only that the counts and viscounts and barons looked with so much
indifference, or even indulgence, on their wives contracting it. There
were exceptions, where the lady carried her condescension too far. But
the very extravagance of terms employed towards the ladies is the best
possible evidence that the Troubadours knew them very little, and by no
means intimately. Bertram, to Helena, was “a bright particular star,”
but only so because he was much away from Roussillon, and—
“So high above me
In his bright radiance and collateral light
Must I be computed, not in his sphere.”
When she became his wife she discovered that he was a mere cub. Cœlia
was no goddess to Strephon. So the privileged “servant,” worshipped,
and only could frame his mind to worship, because held at a great
distance, too far to note the imperfections in temper, in person, in
mind, of the much-belauded lady.
A friend told me that he was staggered out of his posture of worship
to his newly acquired wife by seeing her clean her teeth. It had not
occurred to him that her lovely pearls could need a toothbrush.
William de Balaun, a good knight and Troubadour, loved and served
Guillelmine de Taviac, wife of a seigneur of that name. He debated
in his mind which was the highest felicity, winning the favour of a
lady, or, after losing it, winning it back again. He resolved to put
this question to the proof, so he affected the sulks, and behaved to
the lady with rudeness—would not speak, turned his back on her. At
first she endeavoured to soothe him, but when that failed withdrew, and
would have no more to say to him. De Balaun now changed his mood, and
endeavoured to make her understand that he was experimentalising in the
Gai Saber, that was all. She remained obdurate till a mutual friend
intervened. Then she consented to receive William de Balaun again into
her favour, if he would tear out one of his nails and serve it up to
her on a salver along with a poem in praise of her beauty. And on these
terms he recovered his former place.
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