A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
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A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.
Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
Art and literature; Commonplace books; Ethics; Quotations
I am convinced from my own recollections, and from all I have learned
from experienced teachers in large schools, that one of the most fatal
mistakes in the training of children has been the too early separation
of the sexes. I say, _has been_, because I find that everywhere this
most dangerous prejudice has been giving way before the light of truth
and a more general acquaintance with that primal law of nature, which
ought to teach us that the more we can assimilate on a large scale the
public to the domestic training, the better for all. There exists still,
the impression—in the higher classes especially—that in early education,
the mixture of the two sexes would tend to make the girls masculine and
the boys effeminate, but experience shows us that it is all the other
way. Boys learn a manly and protecting tenderness, and the girls become
at once more feminine and more truthful. Where this association has
begun early enough, that is, before five years old, and has been
continued till about ten or twelve, it has uniformly worked well; on
this point the evidence is unanimous and decisive. So long ago as 1812,
Francis Horner, in describing a school he visited at Enmore, near
Bridgewater, speaks with approbation of the boys and the girls standing
up together in the same class: it is the first mention, I find, of this
innovation on the old collegiate, or charity-school plan,—itself a
continuation of the monkish discipline. He says, “I liked much the
placing the boys and girls together at an early age; it gave the boys a
new spur to emulation.” When I have seen a class of girls stand up
together, there has been a sort of empty tittering, a vacancy in the
faces, an inertness, which made it, as I thought, very up-hill work for
the teacher; so when it was a class of boys, there has been often a
sluggishness—a tendency to ruffian tricks—requiring perpetual effort on
the part of the master. In teaching a class of boys and girls,
accustomed to stand up together, there is little or nothing of this.
They are brighter, readier, better behaved; there is a kind of mutual
influence working for good; and if there be emulation, it is not mingled
with envy or jealousy. Mischief, such as might be apprehended, is in
this case far less likely to arise than where boys and girls, habitually
separated from infancy, are first thrown together, just at the age when
the feelings are first awakened and the association has all the
excitement of novelty. A very intelligent schoolmaster assured me that
he had had more trouble with a class of fifty boys, than with a school
of three hundred boys and girls together (in the midst of whom I found
him); and that there were no inconveniences resulting which a wise and
careful and efficient superintendence could not control. “There is,”
said he, “not only more emulation, more quickness of brain, but
altogether a superior healthiness of tone, body and mind, where the boys
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