When the child has grown big enough to walk,
it may be clothed with kurta and the like, but
its feet should still be kept bare, so that it may
be free to roam about at will. The use of shoes
prevents the free circulation of blood and the
development of hardy feet and legs. Dressing
the child in silk or lace cloths, with cap and
coat, and ornaments, is a barbarous practice. Our
attempt to enhance by such ridiculous means the
beauty that Nature has given, only bespeaks
our vanity and ignorance. We should always
remember that the education of the child really
begins from its very birth, and is best given by
the parents themselves. The use of threats and
punishments, and the practice of gorging the
children with food, are an outrage on the principles
of true education. As the old saying has it, “like
parent, like child”; hence the example and practice
of the parents necessarily shape the conduct
and character of the children. If they are weaklings,
their children also grow up weak and
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delicate; if they talk clearly and distinctly, so too
will the children; but if they talk with a lisp, the
children will also learn to do so. If they use foul
language, or are addicted to bad habits, the
children necessarily imitate them, and develop into
bad characters. In fact, there is no field of human
activity in which the child does not imitate the
example of its parents.
We see, then, how heavy is the responsibility
that rests on the shoulders of parents. The very
first duty of a man is to give such education to his
children as will make them honest and truthful,
and an ornament to the society in which they live.
In the animal and vegetable kingdoms, the offspring
invariably takes after the parent. Man
alone has violated this law of Nature. It is only
among men that we see such incongruities as
vicious children being born to virtuous parents, or
sickly ones to the healthy. This is due to the fact
that we thoughtlessly become parents when we
are not mature enough to assume the responsibilities
of that position. It is the solemn duty of all virtuous
parents to train their children in noble ways.
This requires that both the father and the mother
should themselves have received a sound education.
Where the parents lack such education and are
aware of their imperfections, it is their duty to
entrust their children to the care of proper
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guardians. It is foolish to expect that a high
character can be developed in the children by
merely sending them to school. Where the training
given at school is inconsistent with that given
at home, there can be no hope of improvement for
the child.
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