A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3Howard, George Elliott
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A History of Matrimonial Institutions, Vol. 3 of 3
Howard, George Elliott
Families; Marriage -- History
Long ago Mrs. John Stuart Mill explained how essential are knowledge
and equality to render woman the real companion of man in the
struggle for existence; how the subjection and ignorance of the wife
degrade not only her own character, but that of the husband as well.
"There is hardly any situation more unfavorable to the maintenance
of elevation of character, or force of intellect, than to live in
the society, and seek by preference the sympathy, of inferiors in
mental endowments."[823]
[823] MRS. MILL, "Enfranchisement of Women," _Westminster
Review_, July 1851; or _Dissertations and Discussions_, III, 117,
118. "While far from being expedient, we are firmly convinced,
that the division of mankind into castes, one born to rule over
the other, is in this case, as in all cases, an unqualified
mischief; a source of perversion and demoralization, both to the
favored class and to those at whose expense they are favored;
producing none of the good which it is the custom to ascribe to
it, and forming a bar, almost insuperable while it lasts, to
any really vital improvement, either in the character or in the
social condition of the human race."--_Ibid._, 101. _Cf._ MR.
MILL'S masterly discussion of the relative effects of equality
and inequality in marriage, in _Subjection of Women_, 53-90, 146
ff.
If woman's even partnership with man in the nurture of the family
and in facing the exigencies of external life depends mainly on
equal education, never was such education more urgently required
than at the present hour. Social and industrial problems are
constantly demanding higher and higher mental training for their
solution. The same is true of the problem of the family. It is very
largely a question of reform and development in home education.
Clearly, then, husband and wife have great need of intelligent
sympathy and counsel in the discharge of their joint, yet partially
differentiated, tasks. Hence, it should be the high function of
public education to promote this healthy companionship in social
duty. Furthermore, American experience appears to show that it can
best do so by training young men and women together. Indeed, in this
regard the sociological value of coeducation is very important.
Theoretically it seems reasonable to assume that those who are to
work together in later life may gain some advantage by spending the
years of study side by side. The practical result of coeducation in
the western states, where it has been given the freest opportunity,
appears to demonstrate that such is actually the case. The majority
of those who have had extended experience, after making all due
allowance for special difficulties to be surmounted, are emphatic in
their opinion that mentally and morally both sexes are the gainers
by it, as compared with training in separate institutions.[824]
It is true that eventually marriages very often result from such
associations. That is precisely the gist of the matter. Are not the
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