A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
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A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.
Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
Women physicians -- United States -- Biography; Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth), 1829-1902
Why is this? Have not women as much feeling as men? Why, women are said
to be made up entirely of feeling. How does it happen then that women
condemn where men pity? Do they do this in the consciousness of their
own superior virtue? Ah, no! for many of the condemning are no better
than the condemned.
The reason is that men know the world, that is, they know the obstacles
in the path of life, and they know that they draw lines to exclude
women from earning an honest livelihood while they throw opportunities
in their way to earn their bread by shame. All men are aware of this;
therefore, the good as well as the bad give pity to those who claim it.
It is my honest and earnest conviction that the reason that men are
unwilling for women to enter upon public or business life is not so
much the fear of competition or the dread lest women should lose their
gentleness, and thus deprive society of this peculiar charm, as the
fact that they are ashamed of the foulness of life which exists outside
of the house and home. The good man knows that it is difficult to
purify it; the bad man does not wish to be disturbed in his prey upon
society.
If I could but give to all women the tenth part of my experience, they
would see that this is true, and would see, besides, that only faith in
ourselves and in each other is needed to work out a reformation.
Let woman enter fully into business with its serious responsibilities
and duties; let it be made as honorable and as profitable to her as
to men; let her have an equal opportunity for earning competence and
comfort--and we shall need no other purification of society. Men are no
more depraved than women, or rather, the total depravity of mankind is
a lie.
From the time of my leaving school until I was fifteen years old, my
life was passed as I have described, in doing housework, attending
the sick with my mother, and reading a few books of a scientific and
literary character. At the end of this time, a letter came from an aunt
of my mother’s, who was ill and whose adopted daughter (who was my
mother’s sister) was also an invalid, requesting me to visit and nurse
them. I went there in the fall.
This was probably the most decisive event of my life. My great-aunt
had a cancer that was to be taken out. The other was suffering from a
nervous affection which rendered her a confirmed invalid. She was a
most peculiar woman, and a clairvoyant and somnambulist of the most
decided kind. Though not ill-natured, she was full of caprices that
would have exhausted the patience of the most enduring of mortals.
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