A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
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A Woman's Quest: The life of Marie E. Zakrzewska, M.D.
Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth)
Women physicians -- United States -- Biography; Zakrzewska, Marie E. (Marie Elizabeth), 1829-1902
I would advise a whole code, explanatory of modesty, purity, chastity,
truthfulness, obedience, self-denial, and self-control, clearly to be
comprehended and strictly to be practiced by every woman--married and
unmarried, mothers and grandmothers--so that example shall teach the
virtues to the boy as well as to the girl.
Moral precepts and admonitions, repeated daily in words are listened
to with indifference; but from a living example are drawn good
draughts of healthful moral strength. For instance, speak before a
boy, no matter how small (in fact, the smaller the more dangerous),
with contempt of a woman, and you may be sure the seed of contempt
toward all womanhood is sown and will grow and mature and bear fruit
for another generation. The same is true if, in the hearing of girls,
contempt for men is expressed; yet here the effect is less bad for, as
I said before, the girl is the passive, not the aggressive, element in
nature.
Next, we need a moral code in relation to men. Here, the first
principle should be, what is wrong in woman is wrong in man. There
is no special right for the man. Although we cannot demonstrate an
absolute Right, yet the Golden Rule will always serve as a test where
there is doubt. Men are born as pure and innocent and good as women.
_We develop_ qualities in them from a false conception of the
aggressive impulses inherent in the masculine constitution. This
is the point which we must bear in mind--man is not willfully nor
intentionally vicious; but we allow him to practice a pernicious code
of morals from early childhood, when we begin to say, “Oh, a boy will
be a boy.”
Of course, we want a man to be a man, but we also want a woman to
be a woman. And we cannot make any advance toward the standard of a
true man and a true woman if we give one set of morals to the man and
another to the woman. Our constitution should be alike for both sexes,
although from natural causes some of the by-laws must differ. This is
the only way by which we can establish such relations of men to women
and of women to men as shall be honorable to both and elevating to
mankind in general.
Let us now consider the last but not the least point in our code of
morals, that which concerns our relation to the State. This is, of
course, the broadest and the most comprehensive theme with which moral
education has to deal. Here again we shall see that we have our own
code to make. For by “State” we mean in this country a different thing
from that which Europe so designates. We do not mean a government
given to a people by an aristocracy established centuries ago. We must
learn to understand that when we speak of “the State,” we mean the
voluntary association of a free people which governs itself through
and by the individual exercise of both intellectual and physical
powers. Hence, there arises at once the need of a full comprehension
of our duties as members of such a State.
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