What is this all about anyway? I think I hear you say with the uplift
of the brows which is your very own.
You, in America, with your semi-detached ideas of marriage, which enable
you to bear six months’ or a year’s separation without any sinking of
heart, or vague questionings, must naturally find it difficult to
realise our point of view. With us marriage is "for keeps," as you say,
and when upheaval comes, it seems always to spell disaster.
Perhaps our theory is all wrong, and an unwarrantable interference with
the freedom of the individual. But I can’t be happy thinking of Himself
with a whole lot of new interests I can’t share, making shoals of
friends, which is as easy to him as breathing the air, friends whom
probably I shall never see. He can guess pretty well what I am about,
but I can’t visualise him. Just think of the hundreds of wives, and of
other women who are feeling like this, and who are at war with the war,
that has brought it about.
There is another side to the picture, the side that proves the part
truth of your assertion that we don’t bring up our husbands properly.
Let me present a little cameo of the times in which we live. I was at a
war tea at a women’s club in London the other day, and there met an old
acquaintance I had not seen for some time. She was quite
middle-aged—and had been rather dowdy, not paying much attention to her
clothes. Before I spoke to her, I was arrested by a subtle change in
her outward appearance. She had a smart suit on, and wore a distinctly
youthful hat with a rakish air.
The thing interested me, and I had to find out its meaning.
When we exchanged greetings she informed me that her husband, retired,
had gone back to professional work, which meant that he could not live
at home, but at a military Headquarters.
I sympathised and asked how she got through the lonely days which I was
feeling so desperately. She looked at me queerly through her shrewd
candid grey eyes.
"Oh, I’m not lonely," she assured me. "In fact, _entre nous_, I’m
having the time of my life."
"Tell me about it," I asked breathlessly, and she told——
"Well, I go out and in as I like, do all the things I have always wanted
to do, but could not. Nobody now asks me where I’ve been or what I’ve
spent. In fact, I don’t really think I have any more use for Dan."
There, Cornelia—it will make you smile, perhaps, but there is a tragedy
behind it. Poor old Dan! comfortable, complacent, no doubt inflated by a
new sense of his own importance because his country still needs him, to
what strange and hostile atmosphere will he return! I can imagine him
rubbing his eyes and wiping his _pince nez_ and saying, "Tut, tut, this
will never do!"
But he won’t be able to put back the clock. He’ll have to march to the
new marching tune.
I foresee ructions in the household of Dan.
Meanwhile, she is having the time of her life!
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