Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and MannersFerrero, Guglielmo
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Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and Manners
Ferrero, Guglielmo
America -- Civilization; Europe -- Civilization; Justice, Administration of -- Rome; Progress
It would be difficult to imagine a document more strange than this,
from the point of view of the ideas which prevail at the present day
in European and American society. Matrimony is for us an act of so
great social importance that the state alone—that is to say, the law,
and the law courts—can recognise or dissolve it. To leave the destiny
of a family at the mercy of the will of the father of one of the two
parties, to recognise as his the right to destroy a family at any
moment to suit his individual interest, without being accountable to
anyone for so doing, would seem to us a monstrous thing. And yet this
monstrous thing seemed to the whole of antiquity, with few restrictions
and reservations, legitimate, reasonable, and wise. Differences in
the organisation of the family existed in different countries and
in different centuries; but they were but superficial, unessential
differences. On one point, the whole world agreed: that matrimony
should never be considered an act to be left to the will of the
contracting parties, but a business transaction which the young people
should leave to their fathers to arrange.
Matrimony, as it was in Rome, will serve to give a clear idea of the
ancient world’s conception of the family. In Rome, fathers often
betrothed their sons when they were still children. They made them
marry when they were still quite young, the males before they were
twenty, the girls at about sixteen; and they had the right to oblige
them at any moment to divorce each other, without being forced to
give any reason or explanation. A man might be an exemplary husband,
might live with his wife in the most perfect bliss. If the son’s wife,
for one reason or another, did not suit the fancy of his father, the
son might be obliged any day to put her away. Amongst others to whom
this happened was no less a person than Tiberius, at a time when he
had already become one of the first figures in the Empire, and had
commanded armies in battle. He had married a daughter of Agrippa,
and loved her devotedly. The couple were considered in Rome a model
of affection and faithfulness. But, at a certain moment, Augustus,
who was the adoptive father of Tiberius, judged that for political
motives another marriage might have suited Tiberius better; and he,
accordingly, obliged Tiberius to divorce her. Tiberius was so much
upset, that—as Suetonius tells us—every time he met his first wife in
society, he burst into tears—he, who was one of the most formidable
generals of his time; so that Augustus had to take measures to prevent
their meeting each other. And yet Tiberius had to give way; for his
father, in the eyes of the law and in accordance with the ideas current
in his time, was absolute arbiter in these matters! Not even a man in
the circumstances of Tiberius, who had already been consul, could think
of rebelling against the paternal authority.
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