Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and MannersFerrero, Guglielmo
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Ancient Rome and Modern America; A Comparative Study of Morals and Manners
Ferrero, Guglielmo
America -- Civilization; Europe -- Civilization; Justice, Administration of -- Rome; Progress
These few facts suffice to prove how often the ideas which to one epoch
and to one civilisation seem the most natural, the most evident, and
the most simple, are, on the contrary, complex and difficult ideas,
at which mankind has arrived only after a long effort, and weary
struggles. Is there anything which seems to us more reasonable than to
leave to young people, who wish to found a family, ample liberty of
judgment and of choice in the matter of the person with whom they will
have to pass their lives? Fathers, it is true, often help their sons
by giving advice. They readily place at the disposal of their children
their own experience. But it is only in very rare instances that they
maintain a struggle _à outrance_, to withhold their children from a
marriage on which their hearts are set, or to force on them a repugnant
alliance. We consider that the individual’s happiness may depend to
some extent on his marriage. It is, therefore, just that everybody
should have ample liberty of choice. If the law purported to restore
to fathers the right to make or unmake their sons’ marriages, we are
convinced that at the present day the vast majority of fathers would
refuse to assume such a responsibility, and would consider such a power
unjust, excessive, and tyrannical. There is not a father to-day who,
however averse he may be to a marriage desired by his son or daughter,
does not end by telling him or her, provided a little firmness is shown
in resisting his arguments, that after all it is not he, but his son or
daughter who has to take the husband or wife in question. Indeed, this
inclination to pliability on the part of fathers towards their sons is
increasing every day. Every day sees a growing disinclination on the
part of fathers to fetter, in a matter of such delicacy and of such
importance to the personal happiness of the young, the freedom of the
latter’s inclinations, the spontaneous rush of their feelings. Besides,
what would be the use of having conquered liberty in so many other
spheres, if it were withheld in this which, especially to the young,
seems the most important of all: the liberty of yielding to the impulse
of that passion which at a certain moment of life is the strongest of
all, love?
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