Babylonians and Assyrians : $b Life and customs — John Shaqi
Babylonians and Assyrians : $b Life and customsSayce, A. H. (Archibald Henry)
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Babylonians and Assyrians : $b Life and customs
Sayce, A. H. (Archibald Henry)
Assyria -- Social life and customs; Babylonia -- Social life and customs
It was the bridegroom’s duty and interest to see that the dowry was duly
paid. He enjoyed the usufruct of it during his life, and not unfrequently
it was employed not only to furnish the house of the newly married couple,
but also to start them in business. It was with his wife’s dowry that
Ben-Hadad-nathan bought in part the house to which his widow laid claim
after his death, and we read of instances in which the husband and wife
enter into partnership in order to trade with the wife’s money. More
frequently the wife uses her dowry to transact business separately, her
purchases and loans being made in her own name; this is especially the
case if she otherwise has property of her own.(2)
At times the son-in-law found it difficult to get the dowry paid. From a
deed dated in the third year of Cambyses we gather that the dowry, instead
of being delivered “into the hand” of the bridegroom, as ought to have
been done at the time of the marriage, was still unpaid nine years later.
Sometimes, of course, this was due to the inability of the father-in-law
to discharge his debt, through bankruptcy, death, or other causes. Where,
therefore, the money was not immediately forthcoming, security was taken
for its future payment. If payment in full was impossible, owing to
pecuniary losses incurred after the marriage contract had been drawn up,
the bridegroom was entitled to claim a proportionate amount of it on
behalf of his wife. The heirs were called upon to pay what was due if the
father-in-law died between the drawing-up of the contract and the actual
marriage, and when the wife died without children it returned to her
“father’s house.”
If the husband died and his widow married again, she carried her former
dowry with her. In such a case the children of the first marriage
inherited two-thirds of it upon her death, the remaining third going to
the children of the second husband. This was in accordance with a law
which regulated the succession to the property of a father who had married
a second time, the children of the first marriage receiving two-thirds of
it and the remainder being reserved for the children of the second wife.
The law could only be overruled by a will made during the man’s lifetime,
and properly attested by witnesses.
The dowry could not be alienated by the wife without the consent of her
parents, if they were still alive. In the year of Nergal-sharezer’s
accession, for example, a certain Nergal-ballidh and his wife Dhibtâ
wished to sell a slave, who had constituted the dowry of Dhibtâ, for
twenty-five shekels, but the sale was not considered valid until the
consent of both her father and mother had been obtained.
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