Babylonians and Assyrians : $b Life and customsSayce, A. H. (Archibald Henry)
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Babylonians and Assyrians : $b Life and customs
Sayce, A. H. (Archibald Henry)
Assyria -- Social life and customs; Babylonia -- Social life and customs
The dowry which the woman brought with her on marriage secured of itself
her independence. It was her absolute property, and she could leave it by
will as she pleased. It protected her from tyrannical conduct on the part
of her husband, as well as from the fear of divorce on insufficient
grounds. If a divorce took place the dowry had to be restored to her in
full, and she then returned to her father’s house or set up an
establishment of her own. Where no dowry had been brought by the bride,
the husband was often required by the marriage contract to pay her a
specified sum of money in case of her divorce. Thus a marriage contract
made in Babylon in the thirteenth year of Nebuchadnezzar stipulates that,
if the husband marries a second wife, the act shall be equivalent to a
divorce of the first wife, who shall accordingly receive not only her
dowry, but a maneh of silver as well. The payment, in fact, was a penalty
on the unfaithfulness of the husband and served as a check upon both
divorce and polygamy.
The dowry consisted not of money alone, but also of slaves and furniture,
the value of which was stated in the marriage contract. In the contract
just referred to, for instance, part of the dowry consisted of a slave who
was valued at half a maneh. Sometimes the dowry included cattle and sheep.
In the sixth year of Nabonidos we hear of three slaves and “furniture with
which to stock the house,” besides a maneh of silver (£6), being given as
the marriage-portion. In this instance, however, the silver was not
forthcoming on the wedding-day, and in place of it a slave valued at
two-thirds of a maneh was accepted, the remaining third being left for
payment at a subsequent date. Where the dowry could not be paid at once,
security for the payment of it was taken by the bridegroom.
The payment was made, not by the bridegroom, as among the Israelites and
other Semitic peoples, but by the father of the bride. If he were dead, or
if the mother of the bride had been divorced and was in the enjoyment of
her own property, the mother took the place of the father and was expected
to provide the dowry. In such a case she also naturally gave permission
for the marriage, and it was from her accordingly that consent to it had
to be obtained. In one instance, however, in a deed dated in the sixteenth
year of Nabonidos, a sister is given in marriage by her two brothers, who
consequently furnish the dowry, consisting of a piece of ground inherited
from the mother, a slave, clothes, and furniture. It is evident that in
this case both the parents must have been dead.
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