Barotseland : $b eight years among the Barotse — John Shaqi
Barotseland : $b eight years among the BarotseStirke, D. E. C.
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Barotseland : $b eight years among the Barotse
Stirke, D. E. C.
Western Province (Zambia)
good advice, also counsel the bride-to-be never to refuse the overtures
of one or more paramours, as well as giving her hints of how best to
hide these intrigues from her husband. Very few girls reach the age of
puberty without being already bespoken in marriage. Should the bridegroom
elect have died just previously or at the time of his wife’s “mwalianjo”
ceremony, the girl remains with her father and indulges in fairly
promiscuous intercourse with the men and youths of the village, until a
suitor turns up and marries her. Virginity is unknown and certainly not
demanded.
_Marriage._—As has been shown in the previous paragraph, girls are all
bespoken in marriage many years before arriving at a marriageable age,
and have, theoretically, very little say in the matter at all; the
arrangements being made between suitor and father or mother. The mother’s
rights over her daughter are not so powerful as the father’s. A young man
arriving at an age when he considers it good to get married, goes to the
parents of the girl of his choice (generally before she has arrived at
the age of puberty), and asks their consent to his marriage with their
daughter. If the parents agree, the suitor gives the girl a necklace of
white beads and a blanket. The matter is then left until the girl goes
into hiding for her “mwalianjo.” No permission or approval is required
from the suitor’s parents, but sometimes a father while his son is still
fairly young, will arrange a marriage for him. After the “mwalianjo” is
finished, the bridegroom will give presents to his father-in-law and
mother-in-law. The presents are generally an ox, a hoe and a wooden dish.
The father-in-law on his side gives a shirt and a loin cloth to his
son-in-law. The mother-in-law then cooks beer in large quantities and
the bridegroom, his friends and relatives, the bride and hers, all drink
the beer. The bridegroom also has certain obligations, such as cutting
a garden for his wife’s parents and building or helping to build a new
house for them. During the performance of these duties the newly married
couple live in the wife’s village, eating the food of the wife’s parents,
but after performing these duties, the couple return to the husband’s
village, returning to visit the wife’s parents occasionally but having
their permanent residence at the husband’s village. In case of divorce,
the wife returns to her father’s village. No compensation is due from the
girl’s parents if she is divorced.
[Illustration: Tax-payers
Photo by J. Walton, Esq.]
[Illustration: Royalty travelling by Boat
Photo by Mrs. Cambell]
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