Better babies and their careRichardson, Anna Steese
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Better babies and their care
Richardson, Anna Steese
Infants -- Care; Infants -- Health and hygiene
I recall one woman of my acquaintance whose self-consciousness amounted
to an affliction. She was super-sensitive, self-effacing, apologetic,
always afraid that she was not wanted. One day when speaking of her
futile efforts to correct the tendency, she explained that she had been
an unwelcome child. Her mother had rebelled throughout the period of
pregnancy. She had nursed her child in bitterness of spirit. Later in
life she learned to cling to her daughter for companionship as well as
material care, but the girl never outgrew those unfortunate prenatal
influences.
Another girl, sixth in the family, was carried and nursed by her mother
through times of financial stress, when one more mouth to fill was a
hardship. As soon as the child could toddle, she developed a passion
for running away. She grew up absolutely devoid of family instinct,
filial affection and womanly sense of responsibility. While very young,
she eloped with her first suitor, rather than remain under the parental
roof. She was never dishonest or immoral, but she was born hating her
home and indifferent to her parents.
Still sadder is the case of a mother who gave way to hysteria and
hideous paroxysms of anger throughout the period of pregnancy. Though
physically sound herself and married to a man without taint, this woman
brought into the world a child who never developed mentally beyond her
second year. To-day this mother, now a self-supporting widow, never
leaves the institute for feeble-minded children, where her daughter is
safest and happiest, without the throbbing thought, “Why did no one
warn me of what I was doing to my child?”
On the other hand, when maternity is accepted as a privilege, and
love instead of bitterness reigns in the prospective mother’s heart,
the babe is born tranquil, normal, healthy. Returning to the phrase,
efficiency in motherhood, it is good business to bear normal children.
In this day, the woman who frets, rebels and weeps during pregnancy
commands little sympathy and practical help from her husband and
family. But there is something fine and inspiring about the woman who
firmly, cheerfully demands for herself and the child she is carrying
the best that domestic conditions and environment afford. She becomes
an heroic figure, fulfilling her highest duty to society, and demanding
just toll. Men bow to this attitude when they flee hysterics and
turn deaf ears to angry complaints. And no woman should disregard the
importance of moral support and sympathy on the part of her husband.
To guard her own health and that of the child, the expectant mother
must give careful attention to three things: diet, rest, exercise.
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