Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselvesSorabji, Cornelia
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Between the twilights : $b Being studies of Indian women by one of themselves
Sorabji, Cornelia
India -- Social conditions; Women -- India
The question now is, how far should the enlightened members of the
community strive to better the Purdahnashin custom? In the days when
it came to stay in India there were alleviations. You have but to look
at the architecture of the older towns, of Agra, of Jaipur, to prove
the fact. Every courtyard had its marble lattices, from behind which
the ladies of the house, securely screened, might watch the bear and
tiger-baiting, the wrestling, the ancient games. They had their private
gardens and their baths.
The long pilgrimages in palanquins made change and movement in their
lives. The system was less injurious to health than it is now. In a
town like Jaipur the whole city is one running commentary in rubric
on such alleviations. For the secluded lady there were perpetual
peep-holes on to the life of the street, with its daily pageantry and
frequent carnivals. The more modern house-holder builds blind walls in
his jealous passion of keeping.
Is it any wonder that the race grows degenerate?
Thrown back upon herself, robbed of air for mind and body, marvel is
the Purdahnashin is as nice as we know her.
Take for instance one trait, the loyalty of wives to their husbands.
All who know the orthodox Hindu Zenana will have pathetic instances in
mind of a loyalty which dignifies all womanhood. Nor often however, I
hope, is loyalty put to such severe test as with the little lady whom I
found imprisoned in a fortress in Northern India.
Her story was interesting--she was the daughter of a King, and educated
beyond ordinary. “She shall be as a son to me,” had said her Father,
and he taught her to read and write and figure, and rumour said that
even the local magazine was edited from behind the Purdah. When she
was of an age to marry, her family Priest went a horoscopical tour to
secure her a husband.
At Benares he met the family Priest of another Raj in search of
a bride, and the two Priests agreed to end their wanderings, and
accommodate each other. But alas! the bride-groom’s priest had not
revealed that his patron was half-witted, nor that the Ministers of the
estate were in negotiation for a lady from among themselves. So, on her
wedding day the Raj candidate learnt both that she was wedded to an
idiot, and that she had a co-wife.
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