American essays -- 19th century; Literature -- History and criticism
Between the severe mental training of boys and the education thought
fit and proper for girls, there was throughout the eighteenth century
a broad and purposeless chasm. Before that time, and after it,
too, the majority of women were happily ignorant of many subjects
which every school-girl of to-day aspires to handle; but during the
reigns of Queen Anne and the first three Georges, this ignorance
was considered an essential charm of their sex, and was displayed
with a pretty ostentation that sufficiently proves its value. Such
striking exceptions as Madame de Staël, Mrs. Montagu, and Anne Damer
were not wanting to give points of light to the picture; but they
hardly represent the real womanhood of their time. Femininity was then
based upon shallowness, and girls were solemnly warned not to try
and ape the acquirements of men, but to keep themselves rigorously
within their own ascertained limits. We find a famous school-teacher,
under whose fostering care many a court belle was trained for social
triumphs, laying down the law on this subject with no uncertain hand,
and definitely placing women in their proper station. “Had a _third
order_ been necessary,” she writes naively, “doubtless one would have
been created, a _midway_ kind of being.” In default, however, of this
recognized _via media_, she deprecates all impious attempts to bridge
over the chasm between the two sexes; and “accounts it a misfortune
for a female to be learned, a genius, or in any way a prodigy, as it
removes her from her natural sphere.”
“Those were days,” says a writer in Blackwood, “when superficial
teaching was thought the proper teaching for girls; when every science
had its feminine language, as Hindu ladies talk with a difference
and with softer terminations than their lords: as The Young Ladies’
Geography, which is to be read instead of novels; A Young Ladies’ Guide
to Astronomy; The Use of the Globes for Girls’ Schools; and the Ladies’
Polite Letter-Writer.” What was really necessary for a girl was to
learn how to knit, to dance, to curtsy, and to carve; the last-named
accomplishment being one of her exclusive privileges. Lady Mary Wortley
Montagu received lessons from a professional carving-master, who taught
her the art scientifically; and during her father’s grand dinners her
labors were often so exhausting that translating the Enchiridion must
have seemed by comparison a light and easy task. Indeed, after that
brilliant baby entrance into the Kitcat Club, very little that was
pleasant fell to Lady Mary’s share; and years later she recalls the
dreary memories of her youth in a letter written to her sister, Lady
Mar. “Don’t you remember,” she asks, pathetically, “how miserable we
were in the little parlor at Thoresby?”
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