Bringing up the Boy: A Message to Fathers and Mothers from a Boy of Yesterday Concerning the Men of To-morrow — John Shaqi
Bringing up the Boy: A Message to Fathers and Mothers from a Boy of Yesterday Concerning the Men of To-morrowWerner, Carl Avery
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Bringing up the Boy: A Message to Fathers and Mothers from a Boy of Yesterday Concerning the Men of To-morrow
Werner, Carl Avery
Boys
From the first time that he trots over to the candy store with his
penny, the boy should be trained to know the intrinsic value of money.
Encourage him in moderate frugality, not because the accumulation of
money is a desideratum, but because profligacy is bad for the morals.
Whether it is the mother or the father who takes especial charge of
the boy, or both, they should aim steadfastly to have his complete
confidence always. He should be made to feel that they are not only
dearer to him, but nearer to him than any one else in the world.
If a condition of implicit confidence can be established between you
and the boy, you can depend upon him to be receptive of the good which
you seek to charge him with.
Then, with truth as his anchor, no storm of the outer world can sweep
him beyond the influence of home. The bulwark of the good character
that you have builded will stand throughout his lifetime.
IV
A TALK AT CHRISTMAS TIME
On a Christmas Eve some thirty-odd years ago a very small boy, guarded
on either side by sisters older than himself, knelt at the low sill of
his bedroom window and looked wonderingly out into the night. Above was
the sky, studded with twinkling stars. Below was a soft, silent blanket
of white--the unsullied snow of a northern winter. Everything was very
still.
The boy looked first at the sky. Being of the baby age when the
children of the wise are put to bed with the sun, the night sky was
more mystic than the snow. There were so many of those stars, and
they appeared to be twinkling at him with cheerful friendliness. One
attracted him particularly. It did not twinkle and was not so merry as
the others, but it was larger and shone with a bright, steady glow. It
seemed to be reaching down toward the boy as though it would speak to
him.
He recalled the story that had been told him only the day before, the
story of the first Christmas and of three wise men who had been guided
to the manger wherein lay the infant Christ; and the thought came to
him that this, perhaps, was the star that led them. The suggestion of
the manger brought the boy’s eyes downward to the snow-topped stable
opposite his window; and from the stable he turned to the white-roofed
houses with their chimneys still smoking from the evening fires. He
wondered if Santa Claus would have to wait till all the fires were out
before he could make his rounds.
How white everything was and how still! A sense of delicious mystery
crept over him. He heard the sound of distant sleigh-bells. They drew
nearer and jingled more tunefully. One of his guardians caught his hand
in hers and held up a warning finger. They listened.
“Quick! Maybe it’s Santa Claus!” whispered the guardians in unison; and
the three scampered to their beds and disappeared beneath the blankets.
Five minutes later the little boy was fast asleep.
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