Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7Thurston, Edgar
History
Castes and Tribes of Southern India. Vol. 3 of 7
Thurston, Edgar
Caste -- India, South; Ethnology -- India, South; India, South -- Social life and customs; Tribes -- India, South
It is recorded, in the Gazetteer of Malabar, that, "amongst Kammalans,
the betrothal ceremony is similar to that of the Tiyans. If more
than one brother is to be married, to the same girl, her mother asks
how many bridegrooms there are, and replies that there are mats and
planks for so many. Cohabitation sometimes begins from the night of
the betrothal, the eldest brother having the priority, and the rest
in order of seniority on introduction by the bride's brother. If
the girl becomes pregnant, the formal marriage must be celebrated
before the pregnancy has advanced six months. At the formal marriage,
the bridegrooms are received by the bride's mother and brothers; two
planks are placed before a lighted lamp, before which the bridegrooms
and the bride's brothers prostrate themselves. The bride is dressed
in a new cloth, and brought down by the bridegroom's sister and fed
with sweetmeats.
"Next day all the bridegroom's party visit the Tandan of the bride's
desam (village), who has to give them arrack (liquor) and meat,
receiving in his turn a present of two fanams (money). The next day the
bride is again feasted in her house by the bridegrooms, and is given
her dowry consisting of four metal plates, one spittoon, one kindi
(metal vessel), and a bell-metal lamp. The whole party then goes to
the bridegroom's house, where the Tandan proclaims the titles of the
parties and their desam. All the brothers who are to share in the
marriage sit in a row on a mat with the bride on the extreme left,
and all drink cocoanut milk. The presence of all the bridegrooms is
essential at this final ceremony, though for the preceding formalities
it is sufficient if the eldest is present."
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