Child Life and Sex Hygiene: A Remarkable Message — John Shaqi
Child Life and Sex Hygiene: A Remarkable MessageSmith, Otterbein Oscar
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Child Life and Sex Hygiene: A Remarkable Message
Smith, Otterbein Oscar
Sexual ethics
They should be guided by the finest and holiest thought, for _they are
the elect angels of God to the physical life of man_. But what is done
with them? Oh, sad! The parents have been led to think it is not quite
the thing to talk to their children of these things and the child has
not developed sufficient brain activity to reason about them and to
understand them and translate them into elements of beauty and sacred
service. Here the young life stands like a beautiful deer before the
on-coming prairie fire, it feels the tremendous swish of the flood of
feelings and physical life, like the hissing of the flames behind the
deer. If only the deer can reach the lake for which he pants and swim
out into its cool depths he will be safe; and if the child could creep,
as it were, into the heart of father or mother and hear glorious,
tender, holy words spoken of this flood of feelings, which is all so
strange to it, and which sweeps up through its being like a storm in
the forest, and have an intelligence translate them into God’s own
beauty of life, what a joy it would be!
When I see the mighty army of beautiful youth standing unprotected and
in ignorance of the great danger before them, with no one to teach
them and the very parents that gave them being, indifferent, is it any
wonder that my heart cries out, Oh, sad?
IGNORANT PARENTS――RUINED CHILDREN
What usually happens if one of these elfs of human life has the
temerity to speak to father or mother about these strange impulses? A
blush of shame, perhaps, and the expression, “You better be thinking
of something else,” or “You should be ashamed to be talking of such
things,” ends the conversation.
A lady in high station said to the writer, when talking upon this
subject, “I went to my mother a few days before my marriage and asked
her to tell me about the marriage state. My mother was a good woman,
but all she said was, ‘You will find out soon enough.’” God forgive and
pity the ignorance of such mothers!
Rebuffed at home, what happens? This child goes out upon the streets
and from vulgar playmates, older than it is, through vulgar stories
and suggestions, gets a base and lewd conception of all this in his or
her life which God meant for beauty, for His glory and the glory of
the race, or what is almost as bad, remains in stupid and dangerous
ignorance till some vile octopus throws his tentacles about this dream
of beauty and sparkling, buoyant youth, and the end of the tragedy is
a ruined life, or what more often happens, two of these ignorant young
people get together and because of their ignorance commit those acts
against chastity which bring ruin and disgrace.
“But,” you say, “such cases as you depict above are the exception and
not the rule and I am not afraid of my child being caught in such ways.”
YOUR CHILD IS NOT SAFE
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