Child Life and Sex Hygiene: A Remarkable MessageSmith, Otterbein Oscar
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Child Life and Sex Hygiene: A Remarkable Message
Smith, Otterbein Oscar
Sexual ethics
I grant you this and hope by all means it is so. But do not because of
this, settle back into comfortable indifference, for there are greater
dangers than those stated above from which you cannot say your children
are so free.
As children grow up in the home, if it is a right home, they often see
father and mother kiss each other, and perhaps they see the mother
sometimes lovingly drop down upon the lap of father and put her arms
about his neck. The natural question that comes to the mind of the
child is, “why does she do that?” No one has ever taken the trouble to
anticipate this unspoken question and answer it, and the child goes out
to mingle with its playmates of both sexes with this unspoken question
unanswered.
The natural outcome of the child reasoning will be, if one woman can
kiss a man and sit upon his lap, then all women can kiss men and sit
upon their laps. Why not reason in this way? No one has ever taken the
trouble to explain the difference between the married and the unmarried
state and the rights and privileges that belong to the wedded pair,
which rights are recognized by both God and the laws of our land.
NATURAL MATING
If you will observe them, children mate as naturally as the birds do.
Here they are dancing about us like the sunbeams in the forest, in
pairs of natural selection. You may notice them in the home, in the
school and on the streets. Innocent little things they are in these
childish matings and might remain so to the end of life if some kind
intelligence were directing them. But no such intelligence is at hand.
The mothers joke about these matings and tease the children about them
and that is the end of the parents’ relation to this gravest question
in all life.
These children grow to fourteen or fifteen years of age and the
impulses from the sex nerve center begin to flood themselves out in
a perfect submergence of the life. They get hold of some silly love
stories, that have been written by some heartless person for so much
per line, and were never intended for any normal person to believe or
think possible, but to their childish minds it is a chapter from real
life, for they are not in any sense normal beings at this age as you
will see by a look at the triangle. At this age _the intelligence is
but a mere pigmy_ in their lives as compared to the giants of feeling
and physical life.
IGNORANCE BRINGS RUIN
Seeing and knowing no danger in it, they follow out the natural sex
impulse to touch one another and to caress each other. Why not? Have
they not read in the love story of the lover and the sweetheart kissing
and caressing each other, and furthermore, and _the strongest possible
evidence in the case, have they not seen father and mother kiss and
caress each other_? Is it not the most natural thing, under these
conditions, for these children to enter into such familiar relations as
will lead to serious consequences in many cases?
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