Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Not only in this lavishing of tenderness and of sympathy on the doll,
but in the occasional discharge on it of a fit of anger, children show
how near it comes to a human companion. The punishment of the doll is
an important element in nursery-life. It is apt to be carried out with
formal solemnity and often with something of brutal emphasis. Yet
tenderness being the strongest part of the doll-attachment, the little
disciplinarians are apt to suffer afterwards for their cruelty, one
little girl showing remorse after such a chastisement of her pet for
several days.
I have talked here of "dolls," but I must not be supposed to be speaking
merely of the lovely creatures with blue eyes and yellow hair with which
the well-to-do child is wont to be supplied. Nothing is more strange and
curious in child-life than its art of manufacturing dolls out of the
most unpromising materials. The creative child can find something to
nurse and fondle and take to bed with it in a bundle of hay tied round
with a string, in a shawl, a pillow, a stick, a clothes-pin, or a
clay-pipe. Victor Hugo, with a true touch, makes the little outcast
Cosette, who has never had a "real doll," fashion one out of a tiny
leaden sword and a rag or two, putting it to sleep in her arms with a
soft lullaby.
Do any of us really understand the child's attitude of mind towards its
doll? Although gifted writers like George Sand have tried to take us
back to the feeling of childhood, it may be doubted whether they have
made it intelligible to us. And certainly the answers to questions
collected in America have done little, if anything, towards making it
clear. The truth is that the perfect child's faith in dolldom passes
away early, in most cases it would appear about the age of thirteen or
fourteen. It is then that the young people begin clearly to realise the
shocking fact that dolls have no "inner life". Occasionally girls will
go on playing with dolls much later than this, but not surely with the
old sincerity.
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