Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
That many children have a genuine delusion about their dolls seems
evident. That is to say when they talk to them and otherwise treat them
as human they imaginatively realise that they can understand and feel.
The force of the illusion, blotting out from the child's view the naked
reality before its eyes, is a striking illustration of the vividness of
early fancy. Perhaps, too, this intensity of faith comes in part of the
strength of the impulses which commonly sustain the doll-passion. Of
these the instinct of companionship, of sympathy, is the strongest. A
lady tells me she remembers that when a child she had a passionate
longing for a big, big doll, which would give her the full sweetness of
cuddling. The imitative impulse, too, prompting the child to carry out
on the doll actions similar to those carried out on itself by mother and
nurse, is a strong support of the delusion. A doll, as the odd varieties
selected show, seems to be, more than anything else, something to be
dressed. Children's reasons for preferring one doll to another, as that
it can have its face washed, or that it has real hair which can be
combed, show how the impulse to carry out nursery operations sustains
the feeling of attachment. A girl (the same that wanted the big doll to
fondle) had dolls of the proper sort; yet she preferred to make one out
of a little wooden stool, because she could more realistically act out
with this odd substitute the experience of taking her pet out for a
walk, making it stand, for example, when she met a friend.
Of course, the child's faith, like other faith, is not always up to the
height of perfect ardour. A child of six or seven, when the passion for
dolls is apt to be strong, will have moments of coolness, leaving "poor
dolly" lying in the most humiliating posture on the floor, or throwing
it away in a sudden fit of disenchantment and disgust. Scepticism will
intrude, especially when the hidden "inside" comes to view as mere
emptiness, or at best as nothing but sawdust.
Children seem, as George Sand says, to oscillate between the real and
the impossible. Yet the intrusion of doubt does not, in many cases at
least, interfere with an enduring trust. Dr. Stanley Hall tells us that
"long after it is _known_ that they are wood, wax, etc., it is _felt_
that they are of skin, flesh, etc.". Yes, that is it; the child, seized
with the genuine play-mood, _dreams_ its doll into a living child, or
living adult. How oddly the player's faith goes on living side by side
with a measure of doubt is illustrated in the following story. A little
girl begged her mother not to make remarks about her doll in her (the
doll's) presence, as she had been trying all her life to keep that doll
from knowing that she was not alive.[4]
[4] From an article on "The Philosophy of Dolls," _Chambers'
Journal_, 1881.
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