Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Another of the divine attributes does undoubtedly shock the child's
intelligence. While he is told that God has a special abode in heaven,
he is told also that he is here, there and everywhere, and can see
everything. More particularly the idea of being always watched is, I
think, repugnant to sensitive and high-spirited children. An American
lady, Miss Shinn, speaks of a little girl, who, on learning that she was
under this constant surveillance, declared that she "would _not_ be so
tagged". An English boy of three, on being informed by his older sister
that God can see and watch us while we cannot see him, thought awhile,
and then in an apologetic tone said: "I'm very sorry, dear, I can't
(b)elieve you".
When the idea is accepted odd devices are excogitated by the active
little brain for making it intelligible. Thus one child thought of God
as a very small person who could easily pass through the keyhole. The
opposite idea of God's huge framework, illustrated above, is probably
but another attempt to figure the conception of omnipresence. Curious
conclusions too are sometimes drawn from the supposition. Thus a little
girl of three years and nine months one day said to her mother in the
abrupt childish manner: "Mr. C. (a gentleman she had known who had just
died) is in this room". Her mother, naturally a good deal startled,
answered: "Oh, no!" Whereupon the child resumed: "Yes, he is. You told
me he is with God, and you told me God was everywhere; so as Mr. C. is
with God, he must be in this room."
It might easily be supposed that the child's readiness to pray to God is
inconsistent with what has just been said. Yet I think there is no real
inconsistency. Children's idea of prayer appears commonly to be that of
sending a message to some one at a distance. The epistolary manner
noticeable in many prayers, especially at the beginning and the ending,
seems to illustrate this. The mysterious whispering in which a prayer is
often conveyed is, I suspect, supposed in some inscrutable fashion known
only to the child to transmit itself to the divine ear.
Of the child's belief in God's goodness it is needless to say much. For
these little worshippers he is emphatically the friend in need who is
just as ready as he is able to help them out of every manner of
difficulty, and who, if they only ask prettily, will send them all the
nice things they long for. Yet, happy little optimists as they are
inclined to be, they will now and again be saddened by doubt, and wonder
why the nice things asked for don't come, and why the dear kind God
allows them to suffer so much.
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