Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Just as there are these beginnings of affectionate concern for the
mother and other people, so there is ample evidence of kindness to
animals. The charge of cruelty in the case of little children is,
indeed, seen to be a gross libel as soon as we consider their whole
behaviour towards the animal world.
When once the first fear of the strangeness is mastered a child will
generally take kindly to an animal. A little boy of fifteen months
quickly overcame his fright at the barking of his grandfather's dog, and
began to share his biscuits with him, to give him flowers to smell, and
to throw stones for his amusement.
At a quite early age, too, children will show the germ of a truly humane
feeling towards animals. The same little boy that bravely got over his
fear of the dog's barking would, when nineteen months old, begin to cry
on seeing a horse fall in the street. Stronger manifestations of pity
are seen at a later age. A little boy of four was moved to passionate
grief at the sight of a dead dog taken from a pond.
The indignation of children at the doings of the butcher, the hunter and
others, shows how deeply pitiful consideration for animals is rooted in
their hearts. This is one of the most striking manifestations of the
better side of child-nature and deserves a chapter to itself.
The close absorbing sympathy which we often observe between a child and
animals seems to come from a sense of common weaknesses and needs.
Perhaps there is in it something of that instinctive impulse of helpless
things to band together which we see in sheep and other gregarious
animals. A mother once remarked to her boy, between five and six years
old: "Why, R., I believe you are kinder to the animals than to me".
"Perhaps I am," he replied, "you see they are not so well off as you
are."
The same outpourings of affection are seen in the dealings of children
with their toy babies and animals. Allowing for occasional outbreaks of
temper and acts of violence, a child's intercourse with his doll or his
toy "gee gee" is a wonderful display of loving solicitude; a solicitude
which has something of the endurance of a maternal instinct.
Here, too, as we know, children vary greatly; there are the loving and
the unloving moods, and there are the loving and the unloving children.
Yet allowing for these facts, I think it may be said that in these first
fresh outgoings of human tenderness we have a comforting set off to the
unamiable manifestations described above.
_The Lapse into Lying._
The other main charge against children is that they tell lies. According
to many, children are in general accomplished little liars, to the
manner born, and equally adept with the mendacious savage. Even writers
on childhood who are by no means prejudiced against it lean to the view
that lying is instinctive and universal among children.
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