Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Now it is surely permissible to doubt whether little children have so
clear an apprehension of what we understand by truth and falsity as to
be liars in this full sense. Much of what seems shocking to the adult
unable to place himself at the level of childish intelligence and
feeling will probably prove to be something far less serious.
To begin with those little ruses and dissimulations which are said to
appear almost from the cradle in the case of certain children, it is
plainly difficult to bring them into the category of full-fledged lies.
When, for example, a child wishing to keep a thing hides it, and on your
asking for it holds out empty hands, it would be hard to name this
action a lie, even though there may be in it a germ of deception. These
little ruses or "acted lies" seem at the worst to be attempts to put you
off the scent in what is regarded as a private matter, and to have the
minimum of intentional deception. This childish passion for guarding
secrets may account for later and more serious-looking falsehoods.
There is a more alarming appearance of mendacity when the child comes to
the use of language and proffers statements which, if he reflected, he
might know to be false. Even here, however, we may easily apply grown-up
standards unfairly. Anybody who has observed children's play and knows
how real to them their fancies become for the moment will be chary of
applying to their sayings the word "lie". There may be solemn sticklers
for truth who would be shocked to hear the child when at play saying, "I
am a coachman," "Dolly is crying," and so forth. But the discerning see
nothing to be alarmed at here.
On the same level of moral obliquity I should be disposed to place those
cases where a child will contradictingly say the opposite of what he is
told. A little French boy was overheard saying to himself: "Papa parle
mal, il a dit _sevette_, bébé parle bien, il dit _serviette_". Such
reversals may be a kind of play too: the child not unnaturally gets
tired now and then of being told that he is wrong, and for the moment
imagines himself right and his elders wrong, immensely enjoying the
idea.
The case looks graver when an "untruth" is uttered in answer to a
question. A little boy on being asked by his mother who told him
something, answered, "Dolly". "False, and knowingly false," somebody
will say, especially when he learns that the depraved youngster
instantly proceeded to laugh. But is not this laugh just the saving
clause of the story, suggesting that it was play and the spirit of
mischief at bottom?
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