Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
In this case, I suspect, there was co-operant a strongly marked childish
characteristic, the love of producing an effect. A child has a large
measure of that feeling which R. L. Stevenson attributes to the
light-hearted Innes in _Weir of Hermiston_, "the mere pleasure of
beholding interested faces". The well-known "cock and bull" stories of
small children are inspired by this love of strong effect. It is the
dramatic impulse of childhood endeavouring to bring life into the
dulness of the serious hours. Childish vanity often assists, as where a
little girl of five would go about scattering the most alarming kind of
false news, as, for example, that baby was dead, simply to court
attention and make herself of some importance.
A quick vivid fancy, a childish passion for acting a part, these, backed
by a strong impulse to astonish, and a playful turn for contradiction
and paradox, seem to me to account for most of this early fibbing and
other similar varieties of early misstatement. Naughty it is, no doubt,
in a measure; but is it quite fairly branded as lying, that is, as a
serious attempt to deceive?
In some cases, I think, the vivid play of imagination which prompts the
untrue assertion may lead to a measure of self-deception. When, for
example, an Italian child, of whom Signorina Lombroso tells us, who is
out for a walk, and wanting to be carried says, "My leg hurts me and my
foot too just here, I can't walk, I can't, I can't," it is possible at
least that the vivid imagination of the South produces at the moment an
illusory sense of fatigue. And if so we must hesitate to call the
statement wholly a falsehood.
A fertile source of childish "untruth," which may be more true than
untrue in the sense of expressing the conviction of the moment, is the
wish to please. An emotional child who in a sudden fit of tenderness for
his mother gushes out, "You're the best mother in the whole world!" may
be hardly conscious of any exaggeration. There is more of artfulness in
the flatteries which appear to involve a calculating intention to say
the nice agreeable thing. Some children, especially little girls, are, I
believe, adepts at these amenities. Those in whom the impulse is strong
and dominant are perhaps those who in later years make the good society
actors. Yet if there is a measure of untruth in such pretty flatteries,
one needs to be superhuman in order to condemn them harshly.
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