Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
Science
Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
There are curious points in the manner of childish fibbing. A good many
children seem to be like savages in distinguishing those to whom one is
bound to speak the truth. The "bad form" of telling a lie to the
head-master is a later illustration of the same thing. On the other hand
it seems to be thought that there are people who are specially fitted
to be the victims of untruth. Even young children soon find out who it
is among the servants that being credulous supplies the best listener to
their amazing inventions.
Another interesting point is the way in which the perfectly baseless
fictions of children are apt to grow into permanent "stories". In the
nursery and in the playground there are wont to be developed myths and
legends which are solemnly believed by the simple-minded, and may be
handed down to successors. In all such cases of propagated untruths the
impulse of imitation and the tendency of the child's mind to accept
statements uncritically are of course at work. The "lie" propagated by
this influence of contagion very soon ceases to be a lie.
_Fealty to Truth._
In order to understand what childish untruth really amounts to we must
carefully note its after-effects on the perpetrator. It seems certain
that many children experience a qualm of conscience when uttering that,
of the falsity of which they are more or less aware. This is evidenced
in the well-known devices by which the young casuist thinks to mitigate
the lie; as when on saying what he knows to be false he adds mentally,
"I do not mean it," "in my mind," or some similar palliative. Such
subterfuges show a measure of sensibility, for a hardened liar would
despise the shifts, and are curious as illustrations of the childish
conscience and its unlearnt casuistry.
The remorse that sometimes follows lying, especially the first lie,
which catches the conscience at its tenderest, is much more than this
passing qualm, and has been remembered by many in later life. Here is a
case. A young lady whom I know remembers that when a child of four she
had to wear a shade over her eyes. One day on walking out with her
mother she was looking, child-wise, sidewards instead of in front, and
nearly struck a lamp-post. Her mother then scolded her, but presently
remembering the eyes, said: "Poor child, you could not see well". She
knew that this was not the reason, but she accepted it, and for long
afterwards was tormented with a sense of having told a lie.
Such remorse, in certain cases prolonged beyond the first lie, comes to
the little offender as he or she lies in bed and recalls the untruths of
the day. Some children suffer greatly from this periodic reflection on
their lies.
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
Reviews
Reviews
No reviews yet
Be the first to share your thoughts on this work.
Elsewhere in the archive
Join the Discussion
Join the discussion
Sign in to leave a comment or review.
Sign InorCreate an account