Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
This recognition of the absolute imperativeness of a rule properly laid
down by the recognised authority is seen in the frequent insistence on
its observance in new circumstances. It has been pointed out by
Professor Preyer that a child of two years and eight months will follow
out the prohibitions of the mother when he falls into other hands,
sternly protesting, for example, against the nurse giving him the
forbidden knife at table. Very proper children rather like to instruct
their aunts and other ignorant persons as to the right way of dealing
with them, and will rejoice in the opportunity of setting them straight
even when it means a deprivation for themselves. The self-denying
ordinance, "Mamma doesn't let me have many sweets," is by no means
beyond the powers of a very correct little person.
A still clearer evidence of this respect for law as such, apart from its
particular enforcement by the parent, is supplied by children's way of
extending the rules imposed on themselves to others. No trait is better
marked in the normal child than the impulse to subject others to his own
disciplinary system. With what amusing severity are they wont to lay
down the law to their dolls, and to their animal playmates, subjecting
them to precisely the same prohibitions and punishments as those to
which they themselves are subject! Nor do they stop here. They enforce
the duties just as courageously on their human elders. A mite of
eighteen months went up to her elder sister, who was crying, and with
perfect mimicry of the nurse's corrective manner, said: "Hush! hush!
papa!" pointing at the same time to the door.
This judicial bent of the child is a curious one and often develops a
priggish fondness for setting others morally straight. Small boys have
to endure much in this way from the hands of slightly older sisters
proficient in matters of law and delighting to enforce the moralities.
But sometimes the sisters lapse into naughtiness, and then the small
boys have their chance. They too can on such occasions be priggish if
not downright hypocritical. A little boy had been quarrelling with his
sister named Muriel just before going to bed. On kneeling down to say
his prayers and noticing that Muriel was sitting near and listening, he
prayed aloud in this wise, "Please, God, make Muriel a good girl," then
looked up and said in an angry voice, "Do you hear that, Muriel?" and
after this digression resumed his petition.
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